In that case I'm a loser through and through as very rarely have I had a date that didn't cost me a cent.
In many cases the sum total of a night of passion came up to more than $500.... $150 for the meal, $250 for the hotel room and $50 for breakfast the next morning plus $50 for misc expenses eg petrol/taxi, condoms, lube, blood test if condoms were not used etc.