Who says grumbling doesnt help?
Well, we grumbled abt the unfair GRC system. PAP added more NCMPs and NMPs and reduce the GRC size. We grumbled abt the huge inflow of FTs; now they say they are going to 'calibrate' it. We grumbled abt the HDB flat prices and affordability; now they say they'll build more. So it goes on.
Of cos, we are still not happy with their answers, because they are so arrogant with their wealth and insult us by saying that we're lazy and choosy, and taunt us with their disbelief and out of touchness. So we must fight on.
If we follow you, hunker down and 'change your expectations', we'll get bullied even more. So even if more Opp means a slower govt, more trading, so be it. The patient is so ill now he has to get worse before he gets better.
So you register your unhappiness by voting against the PAP and not because the opposition has a platform you believe in. In that way, you become the opposition's pawn.
The same problem remains - you still need to get on with your life. Voting against the PAP relieves your anger, but you still need concrete actions to further your own life.
What I am saying is that your desires and happiness does not lie in any party but in your own actions.
Have a good day