honestly this kind of girl not worth to be your wife.
even u get to marry her today the next day she hanky panky with another guy.
how long can u endure as a man knowing your wife been screwed by another man and remember now u already married to her and in singapore the law is more favorable to the women charter.
i know it is hard but it is wiser to let her go and find someone better!
i still remember i had a gf and after she saw me she fall in love with me and i didnt know she have a bf (infact she wanted to breakup with her bf but her bf dont want to let her go) well it mean she been seeing two men at the same time. after many months i suspected something fishy then one day out of the blue i just told her "i know what is going on"(i also dont know why i said that lol) and her face change and she told me everything!!.
i got a shock but i stay calm and she still tell me how can i be so calm when i "knew" his gf been sleeping with another man!
that moment my love for her died. well i knew sooner or later she going to break up with me because her bf comes from a rich family who drove sport car and even gave her credit card for her to spent every month while me a very poor man struggling to put food on the table i just a mailroom cum despatch! true enough after afew weeks she show me a huge diamond ring on her finger and she still can tell me her "mom" buy for her and since then slowly we stop seeing each other.
i was very disappointed and i told myself i will find a better women and i found my current wife
me and my dear wife been married for 16 years now and have a beautiful 6 year old daughter and i able to retired in my early 40s and became a fulltime daddy
i guess it is a blessing in disguise
so bro dont give up there so many flower out there show her even without her u can survive!