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[Claire]

he hates it wen u tok about windoze ...

u shud be tokin about macs instead ...

That's funny R2D2 ~ somehow you name feels liddat to me

 

[yellowarse]

Sex is for procreation of the human race. Orgasm is part and parcel of sex, nothing to glamorize about it or go to great length to achieve it. You get it, ok; you don't get it, well you don't get it.

In the old days maybe. In this day and age of gender equality and female emancipation, more and more women are demanding satisfaction in bed as well. It's not enough for the man to just bring the bacon home. Many marriages break down today because of sexual incompatibility and resultant infidelity: man can't satisfy wife, wife not interested in sex, husband/wife strays. Ergo divorce.

So there's a social dimension to sex as well; it has become an important component of a strong and happy relationship. You can't turn back the clock anymore.

 

[Claire]

... You can't turn back the clock anymore.

This is absolutely correct. In this metrosexual society, women has a role to play as well as to give.

 

[yinyang]

Claire, not surprising some here came close to calling you a CT :p.

On your preference to be on top, it also reflects your wanting to be in CONTROL.
Old adage of wham, bang and thank you ma'am doesn't hold these days.
With bloke after getting his rocks off, and either turns over or starts to snore
Leaving partner high and dry

 

[zhihau]

Cheers

I, for one, always believe in male chivalry, I make sure it's ladies first

Nevertheless, enjoy the wild sex while it lasts, I'm not the first to tell you this and shan't be the last :p:p:p

 

[Claire]

Claire, not surprising some here came close to calling you a CT :p.

On your preference to be on top, it also reflects your wanting to be in CONTROL.
Old adage of wham, bang and thank you ma'am doesn't hold these days.
With bloke after getting his rocks off, and either turns over or starts to snore
Leaving partner high and dry

I like the way you put it ~ poetic, classic and elegant. Indeed a cut above the usual crass I read here Cheers!

What is CT? Errr...

 

[po2wq]

... With bloke after getting his rocks off, and either turns over or starts to snore ...

or smoke a ciggie ...

or introduces himself ...

 

[Claire]

I, for one, always believe in male chivalry, I make sure it's ladies first

Nevertheless, enjoy the wild sex while it lasts, I'm not the first to tell you this and shan't be the last :p:p:p

Thank you Zhihau.

Ladies first is a must. I had a horrid experience in my younger days when my first boyfriend became "un-resuscitatable", leaving me totally in frustration.

 

[zhihau]

leaving me totally in frustration.

Presumably he ain't a geeky nerd, you should have asked him to surf more porn.

 

[Claire]

Presumably he ain't a geeky nerd, you should have asked him to surf more porn.

I was only in Uni, then, for goodness sake. Still an innocent girl who doesn't know what I want in life! Reaching my 30s, I have re-discovered myself and now - much more confident in myself and what I want.

 

[yellowarse]

I was only in Uni, then, for goodness sake. Still an innocent girl who doesn't know what I want in life! Reaching my 30s, I have re-discovered myself and now - much more confident in myself and what I want.

If you had learned to masturbate then, you'd have been able to tell your BF what your erogenous zones are, how to stimulate them, and what works for you. For young people, sex is usually a mutual learning experience.

 

[Claire]

If you had learned to masturbate then, you'd have been able to tell your BF what your erogenous zones are, how to stimulate them, and what works for you. For young people, sex is usually a mutual learning experience.

I am sort of a "late" developer in these matters. :o

 

[yinyang]

What is CT? Errr...

Other usual culprits didn't come to damsel's rescue here? :p

Surprised, even you the late bloomer hasn't caught up with this lingo?
CT = Cxxk Teaser :o

 

[po2wq]

Other usual culprits didn't come to damsel's rescue here? ...

CT = Cxxk Teaser :o

me thot ct = c**t ...

 

[Claire]

Other usual culprits didn't come to damsel's rescue here? :p

Surprised, even you the late bloomer hasn't caught up with this lingo?
CT = Cxxk Teaser :o

A very good morning to you, Yin. Decided to shorten your name if you don't mind or Do you prefer to be called Yang, hehe..

First, I admit I didn't know CT is a popular acronym for cockteasing .

Second, I am no damsel in distress as I believe I can hold up to any harassment in the most professional way

Third, I admit I do CTing at times with man I want and not everyone. Definitely not publicly nor in workplaces. I guess it is a natural reaction. I am sure many men does the same too, to the women they like, though I call that chivalry.