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Mood swings

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http://www.asiaone.com/Health/Women%27s+Matters/Story/A1Story20090917-168495.html

Tue, Sep 22, 2009
The Straits Times

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Mood swings

By Dr Brian Yeo

Mariam stepped into my consultation room in a low-cut dress, filling the space with her strong perfume scent. Married and in her mid-30s, she was a high-flying executive in the creative industry.

She has always been sociable and loquacious. But, from the moment she walked in, she was talking fast, gesticulating extensively and was openly flirtatious.


Beaming, she announced that she had recently signed up for several spa packages, joined a fitness gym and bought two branded bags. Then, in a conspiratorial voice, she told me she had had an extra-marital affair.

Mariam has manic-depressive disorder.

On this visit, she was clearly in the manic state, as seen in her extremely elated mood, rapid and excited speech and her grand plans coupled with poor control over her impulses for pleasure.

Under such circumstances, she could easily be taken advantage of by others and be vulnerable to spending whimsically.

We have all come across people who seem all of a sudden to be highly energetic and even full of ideas. However, in a full-blown manic state, they are not their usual selves and may not be able to socialise normally. Some even become irritable.

Those with manic-depressive disorder are prone to depression after their manic episode. Their depression can be severe with low mood, poor sleep, appetite loss and thoughts of harming themselves.

This extreme mood swing is why manic-depressive disorder is also called bipolar disorder, as the patient's mood can fluctuate. He can go from being euphoric and energetic to being depressed and suicidal.

The risk of developing manic depressive disorder in one's lifetime varies from 0.4 to 1.6 per cent.

For classical depression, more women suffer from it than men. However, both sexes are equally prone to suffer from bipolar disorder.

There are two major challenges in treating people with bipolar disorder.

First, the patient needs to be aggressively treated while in the manic phase - when he feels euphoric and able to do anything and everything all at once.

He wants to stay in this elated state, so the last thing he wants is treatment that will take him off his 'high". Because of his diminished sense of reality, counselling alone is of little use.

Indeed, hospital admission - even if it is against his will - so that he can receive medication may be necessary.

The other challenge is when the patient is in the depressed state. This time, he may need anti-depressant medication if he does not respond well to counselling.

Yet it is important that the attending physician monitors the effect of the anti-depressant medication as there is a risk of the patient swinging quickly from the depressed state to the manic state.

Indeed, many patients need to be put on long-term mood stabiliser medication.

In Mariam's case, I decided she needed to be hospitalised to calm her elated state. Her family was told to ensure that she remained on the mood-stabilising medication to keep her on an even keel even when she appeared to be well.

Marital therapy was initiated for her husband, who was upset by her indiscretions.

Also, with her consent, letters were sent to the spa company and the health gym where Mariam had signed contracts, to help her get out of these contracts and have part of her deposits returned, on medical grounds.

Someone like Mariam will need to have her emotional state monitored to prevent any relapse.

It is very important that medication be given at the early 'high' stage - before a full-blown relapse occurs.

Now back to her usual chirpy but controlled self, Mariam said she was embarrassed by her recent manic relapse but admitted that she had enjoyed the attention male colleagues showered on her, as well as the energy and sexual rush she had felt in her elated state.

When she is neither manic nor depressive, Mariam is well aware that any impulsive behaviour can affect her loved ones. She wants to be more careful in monitoring herself and does not resent the fact that her family members are now more vigilant and watching for early signs of any relapse.

Bipolar disorder patients are challenging to treat as they can function very well in between episodes. In fact, there are many famous authors and businessmen with this disorder and many attribute having these mood swings as the source of their energy and creativity.

Yet, they are all too aware that things can and do rapidly go downhill in a relapse.

Regular follow-ups and reviews of the prescribed medication are key to their attaining an equilibrium despite the challenges and stresses of urban living.

Bipolar disorder patients can remain well, although their mood states can seem to be slightly more exuberant or more morose compared to that of their friends and colleagues.

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Dr Brian Yeo is a consultant psychiatrist in private practice and an adjunct associate professor at the department of psychological medicine at the Yong Loo Lin School of Medicine, National University of Singapore. He is also a certified master substance abuse counsellor and is currently the Singapore Medical Association's representative to the Board of Management, Singapore Anti-Narcotics Association.

This article was first published in Mind Your Body, The Straits Times.
 

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There are times that I wonder if such disorders are self fulfilling prophecies. I have mothers who tell me very proudly that their kids have ADHD and in the same breath tell me who their well known socialite doctor is. These are kids that I have seen from childbirth and who look perfectly normal to me before the treatment.

I have also seen kids who fall clearly in the ADHD range during early childhood and become socially normal by secondary school without intervention. In fact I can't recall a single kid displaying any such traits during my secondary school days.

However the latest fad made popular by old man and his daughter is dyslexia which now seems rampant in terms of receiving treatment. Luckily old man did not have STD or else we would have an STD explosion in quick time.

As they say - if you look hard enough, you will find it even if its not there.
 

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ADHD is hyped up condition an excuse given to naughty kids and to create lifetime employment for medical specialist,

My 100years old grandmother will tell you that such "ADHD" suspected children (boys especially) are suppose to be active and "intelligent" kids. And grandmum's traditional cure is the good old rotan which still cost 50 cents these days at selected papa mama corner provision shop.

Unless can get exemption from NSlavery to have any kind of disorder, illness, disease and handicap is more pain than benefit.

It is not like joining any special club or association in SG for the parents and the kids.

The mood swinging and reportedly diagnosed as "manic depression" woman better had a second opinon to test for hormones disorder or something milder, if not the wrongly
prescribed medicine could screw up her already suffering brain!



Upped yours :oIo: power for making a solid observation! :biggrin:

There are times that I wonder if such disorders are self fulfilling prophecies. I have mothers who tell me very proudly that their kids have ADHD and in the same breath tell me who their well known socialite doctor is. These are kids that I have seen from childbirth and who look perfectly normal to me before the treatment.

I have also seen kids who fall clearly in the ADHD range during early childhood and become socially normal by secondary school without intervention. In fact I can't recall a single kid displaying any such traits during my secondary school days.

However the latest fad made popular by old man and his daughter is dyslexia which now seems rampant in terms of receiving treatment. Luckily old man did not have STD or else we would have an STD explosion in quick time.

As they say - if you look hard enough, you will find it even if its not there.
 
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scroobal

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Agree with you, the rotan does wonders. And the intelligent ones are indeed the naughty ones.

ADHD is hyped up condition an excuse given to naughty kids and to create lifetime employment for medical specialist,

My 100years old grandmother will tell you that such "ADHD" suspected children (boys especially) are suppose to be active and "intelligent" kids. And grandmum's traditional cure is the good old rotan which still cost 50 cents these days at selected papa mama corner provision shop.

Unless can get exemption from NSlavery to have any kind of disorder, illness, disease and handicap is more pain than benefit.

It is not like joining any special club or association in SG for the parents and the kids.

The mood swinging and reportedly diagnosed as "manic depression" woman better had a second opinon to test for hormones disorder or something milder, if not the wrongly
prescribed medicine could screw up her already suffering brain!



Upped yours :oIo: power for making a solid observation! :biggrin:
 

besotted

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Yes, cane them to discipline them

Unfortunately society these days take the cue from the West, and new generation grows up to become ah guas

Example: during ICT, take aircon bus to range

What the fuck! Singaporeans are bunch of softie weakling ah guas
 

SIFU

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what nonsense:confused:

mood swing:cool: like to fuck ard and be a slut say so lah.. mood swing my foot.
 

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There are times that I wonder if such disorders are self fulfilling prophecies. I have mothers who tell me very proudly that their kids have ADHD and in the same breath tell me who their well known socialite doctor is. These are kids that I have seen from childbirth and who look perfectly normal to me before the treatment.

I have also seen kids who fall clearly in the ADHD range during early childhood and become socially normal by secondary school without intervention. In fact I can't recall a single kid displaying any such traits during my secondary school days.

However the latest fad made popular by old man and his daughter is dyslexia which now seems rampant in terms of receiving treatment. Luckily old man did not have STD or else we would have an STD explosion in quick time.

As they say - if you look hard enough, you will find it even if its not there.
Another name for ADHD is "spoilt brat".
 

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are there buses with no aircon?
There used to be a time in the saf when we took the damn 3 tonner everywhere we went. It was damn uncomfortable, but at least we looked like soldiers.
Nowadays, the softies take air con buses everywhere they go. Don't the bigwigs realize that the soldiers look foolish carrying their rifles and helmets in air con buses?
 

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There used to be a time in the saf when we took the damn 3 tonner everywhere we went. It was damn uncomfortable, but at least we looked like soldiers.
Nowadays, the softies take air con buses everywhere they go. Don't the bigwigs realize that the soldiers look foolish carrying their rifles and helmets in air con buses?

ermm...

to be fair, i tot the problem was limited NS MT line drivers..

so by engaging pte bus co for personnel transport, they can actually save some NS manpower..
 

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Yes, cane them to discipline them

Unfortunately society these days take the cue from the West, and new generation grows up to become ah guas

Example: during ICT, take aircon bus to range

What the fuck! Singaporeans are bunch of softie weakling ah guas

What about your FTrash pets? Do they need to serve NS at all? If not, aren't they worse than Ah Guas?
 

scroobal

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The same here. I have met people who have undergone bipolar treatment and they were no different before the treatment.

I have also met people with violent mood swings and they never claim to have any disorder or claim to undergo treatment.

At times I wonder if people just want to have a chat to address their concerns and issues that they face in life.

i still dun understand what is bipolar disorder?
 

scroobal

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There is distinct difference between someone who is active and a spoilt brat.

Go to a supermarket and you can see poor upbringing - opening packets, cans, playing with display items, running around the aisles etc and the parents are right there. I tend to see this with FT parents particularly. Thats spoilt brats and all the kids from the same parents do that.

ADHD / ADD appears to surface when the kids don't do well in school work but are active or over active and can't keep still. If they did well in school, we won't be having ADHD and ADD diagnosis. It seems to placate the parents more tha anything else.

One day they will discover a disorder where the kids are bad in school work and also slow. Something needs to be done to placate such parents.


Another name for ADHD is "spoilt brat".
 

SIFU

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out of context a bit..

i also keep hearing ppl say they have depression, machiam its a fashionable thing to have..

come on lah life its not a bed of roses, there are bound to be time when u feel down.. you dun have depression, u r just feeling sad lah..:biggrin::cool:
 

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There used to be a time in the saf when we took the damn 3 tonner everywhere we went. It was damn uncomfortable, but at least we looked like soldiers.
Nowadays, the softies take air con buses everywhere they go. Don't the bigwigs realize that the soldiers look foolish carrying their rifles and helmets in air con buses?

aiyah, why care about look. does riding in 3 tonner make u a better soldier?
 

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There is distinct difference between someone who is active and a spoilt brat.

Go to a supermarket and you can see poor upbringing - opening packets, cans, playing with display items, running around the aisles etc and the parents are right there. I tend to see this with FT parents particularly. Thats spoilt brats and all the kids from the same parents do that.

ADHD / ADD appears to surface when the kids don't do well in school work but are active or over active and can't keep still. If they did well in school, we won't be having ADHD and ADD diagnosis. It seems to placate the parents more tha anything else.

One day they will discover a disorder where the kids are bad in school work and also slow. Something needs to be done to placate such parents.
One day they will discover a disorder in the parents.
And these elite parents will be rushing to the brand name doctors to get their "problem" "fixed".
 
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