Oh dear, another desperate attempt to make yourself believable by speaking about "record in real life".
When you raise a "fact", you have to prove the fact.
When you proffer an "opinion", you have to be persuasive.
When you don't need an audience, what speak to an audience in the first place? Keep it to yourself.
I don't have to prove anything in an online forum, and have never understood why people like you insist on credibility and persuasiveness. There is no need to prove one's credibility when both of us are hiding behind nicknames. Of all people know we are both 50 year old spinsters pretending to have dicks.