Feeling low today, an ex boss fainted yesterday and could not work today. Though we had to call up affected people but heavy heart as he is a good man. One of a few good men who acted in good faith. Though he helped so many people, in the end when he was hospitalized, no one turned up except myself and a good hearted bro who barely knew him yet felt related enough to visit someone. All those people he helped, did nothing for him when he needed a reference for a job, my title is not much but i did what i could. He is a good man.
Planning to take family to Genting this weekend so will plan to head out to Ikea in KL first before checking into Genting in the afternoon. Busy with preparation and for a quick trip to buy something up north. When i heard the news, abandoned all plans and though there, went back, changed clothes, changed cars, drove in to SG and visit him.
Went to TTSH (basement parking horrible) and had to wait for registration but it was ok in the end. Got him some birds nest and snacks but luckily it wasn't too bad but his blood sugar was too low. He was really glad to see me though, its sad though. Still remembered it was his who gave me the job years back when i managed to beat others to it. Its not that i was good, no not at all, i was just really lucky (for once) and he gave me that crucial chance. It was an American who trusted me enough to give me the job even though my academic back then was bare. He was never like my other bosses who shouted or used me. Really good man.
Never forgot his kindness, always remembering to pay it back with each subsequent new hire i brought in. Though i will be away this weekend, still felt worried for him and rushed back to visit. I was glad i did as he was in a big ward with lots of noises and people but he was lying there alone. Everyone's table had something but his was empty. I am just glad its not empty anymore when i left. :'(
He even brought me to Yosemite on his own time and money back when i was in the states. Driving in to visit him was the least i can do, kind of sad that many who depended on him for his help in the past and a supposedly close friend did not visit but well ok, at least did send him an SMS when i notified him.
Kind of brought me to reality, how simple and fragile life can be:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_H590e5KKw&feature=related