Actually, this kind of women is damn scary to me. Because they are the mistress of some asshole who happens to be somebody. I ever chased one charbor before, until someone quietly told she is mistress of so and so. then I stopped right away. If i did not know that info, I might have been whacked businesswise unknowingly.
Agreed with you such women are scary.
But the scary part is not that some sam seng bf of hers will come and whack you. The scary part is the tremendous amount of energy and resources a person may have to devote to one of these women once you are smitten by their wiles and get involved with them. The end result will be one great loss, financial, emotion, social or power. Let me explain a little:
Firstly they have some peculiar characteristics - very sociable, loud and attention grabbing and from time to time displays of great vulnerability that attracted some men to these seemingly damsels in perpetual distress. Of course they always find ways and means to open up their legs so you eat the sweet cake first and be lured onto the hook. They can be said to be damned attractive, on the surface, great success socially, until or unless a man gets involved or know them long enough.
They may be material, money, emotional or social centric from time to time or can be a mix of any two or more of these. It all depends on the circumstances and sometimes on the men - what each man can provide them. So you can see these women going off with men who may be very rich or men who can take great care of their emotional needs (that is, console them, sayang sayang them when they are down) or men who are social butterflies. Doubtless, this means that they can have affairs with two or more men, at the same time, not withstanding their marital status at any point in time.
The great burden does not come from the sex part, but beyond it. So any man, (other than one who is experienced and able to handle such women as these men mostly just want the sex part) who gets involved will simultaneously be hit by their demands for sex, money and more taxing, emotional support - the damsel in perpetual distress syndrome.
All of the above becomes very very scary especially for any man who made the great mistake to marry any of these women. Slowly, slowly, they will be drawn in, until committed and then boh pien, have to carry on. Emotional dramas are constantly being played, one after another. Notwithstanding this, whatever the man did, should the woman feel that she no longer can get or get not enough of any of the factors such as money, emotions, sex or socialities (that is, partying and chionging), she is liable to go seek some other man or men to satisfy her demands....that is why these women ended up divorcees at an early age and likely at least two or more marriages before the age of 35. Worse, if the marriage resulted in any children....the divorces will be acrimonious, dramatic and plenty of emotional rides. For the men, it may even resulted in big losses in finances, social standing, powers or positions.
So be warned....if you ever see a woman who seemingly fit part or all of the above profile, ask other people around, gather feedback and be prepared for a wild ride if a man wants to get involved.
Best to keep twenty foot distance from them and there will be plenty of antics and drama that can be watched from the side lines.