Ladyboy Pan's comments are justified. She is auntie to Culvert, and a close colleague and long-time friend with the parents of Culvert. She didn't make those comments to the media, but to a small group of close friends. She had Culvert's interest at heart.
HF's parental skills have been called into question. Culvert is only 18 and Ladyboy's comments exposed Culvert may have had pre-marital sex. This is not a big deal to many, but not for a couple who pride themselves for evangelizing in Mediacorp, converting fellow colleagues like Li Nanxing and Chew Chor Meng.
Just tell us, HF. Is Culvert still a virgin ? If he isn't, then Ladyboy's comments are justified. Don't try to "whataboutery".