My dear Perspective,
I don't speak with twisted tongue. What I say in public could well be spoken in private. Unlike someone who will jab me all they want behind my back or just hide behind anonymous handlers like yours but just pretend to be courteous right in front. That's just not me.
And for the record, when I am criticising, I base on issues on hand, never about personality. Well, maybe that's your trait, but that's not mine. I could well defend the same person as well as criticising him later not because I have changed stand but because the merits of the different issues have shifted. You don't expect me to continue to praise someone even when I feel that he has done wrong, do you? Hypocrisy is not my trait either.
It is up to other people to decide how to vote and it is not my responsibility to garner votes for anybody. If I am going to behave just like you wish, I would become more PAP than PAP already. PAP members will always praise themselves to the sky, whether in private or public. My democratic belief is always based on the first premise, nobody is perfect, that's why you need democratic checks and balances. Well, maybe to you and your ilks, you may think that you need to be more PAP than PAP to win them, so be it. That's not my trait either.
Whether a criticism is valid and taken well into daily reflections, that's not my judgment call. You will have decide. You have different attitude towards criticisms. You could use circular argument that so and so (eg. PAP) is our enemy, so any criticisms from them are invalid... so they are full of hatred. So be it. That will only increase your emotions, not your strength. Make the best of other people's criticisms. They are your mirrors. But alas, some just don't think other people's words are worth anything, so be it.
You ask, should opposition accept PAP's criticisms? My answer is, why not if they are valid? Or you are just too presumptuous that all their criticisms will be invalid?
PAP may not criticise you in the hope of helping you to improve, so be it. But that doesn't stop you from improving yourself based on their criticism, right? Why must you be dictated by PAP's will and fancy? I just don't really understand.
I am just playing around with you, that's all. Knowing you for so long, you are all that presumptuous to start with. There is no questions but only imaginations within you.
Goh Meng Seng
Did I mention "criticism"? I believe one would know it's not the only way to "take on".
But let's go into that anyway.
There's a difference between something said in private and in public.
There's a difference between a public message reaching others other than the intended person, and direct which of course does.
The intentions are different, so that needs to be clear.
You might "vote against the common opponent", but there's no guarantee that those who have read your message will do the same.
The PAP also criticises opposition. Does that mean they want them to improve? Maybe.
Should opposition accept it? Does not seem that way to me, thought the idea is not to allow criticisms from them.
Would you then be against improvement for the organisation?
And what of "against criticism"? Is it the acceptance of a criticism, or the acceptance of what the criticism is? Or both?
BTW you talk about voting. How do you know how another person votes for? Reading his mind?
Every time you start responding, you create more questions. Try to be less washy, it helps.