Just to share a personal experience in dealing with with intimacy with a younger lady....
The insignificant nobody me was once at a pub, just to chill off after a hard day's work, relaxing with drinks & music & happy to be alone in the dimly lighted pub, with only few patrons.
An obviously young lady barely out of her teens approached & politely asked if she could share table & drinks with me. I am no stranger to such happenings & invited her to do so.
Somehow thru conversations, it lead to her willingness & open mindedness to intimacy, & being no fool, I dug deeper into her psyche why she do such a thing, & revealed much to my little informed mind....
She told me her story, of being a simple villager from Hanoi, enticed by others that much money could be earned in rich Singapore. She had an beloved aged mother back home & need much money for medical treatment to save her life, as well as siblings to feed, & thus her determination to let go of her pride & try to find some money to sustain her family.
Unfortunately, what was influenced to her was not true, as there were cheapskate Singaporeans whom left no tips for time spent, & worse, STOLE every cent in her purse while she showered in the hotel after agreeing for some further intimacy....
Such sob stories are only common, mostly untrue, but I did ensure throughout the conversations to dig for veracity by asking repeated questions from different angles if same answers would be tendered forth, & found it to be at the least true & based upon my understandings of cheapskate fellow males....
She told me it was her last night in Singapore & wanted a happy ending, even if I could not resolve her financial needs as I told her early I had no money left after paying for the beer tower, to make up for her huge disappointments...
Throughout the conversations, I realized that we kinda clicked, & she was leaning closer & closer intimately to me for my sympathetic words to her that brought forth sad realities & yet comfort, even though I assured her she may leave with no tips from me...and frankly, such physical interactions between male & female would only eventually lead to a relationship...something that the single me was not prepared or wanted, more so the disparity in age & the complications & consequences...'Fatal Attraction' comes to mind. I am no white knight that could save all as much as I would want to, not even a Billionaire would have enough funds to uplift 7 Billion Human lives...
Despite the intoxicating drinks & atmosphere, I still had a sense to hold on to what my head wants - to hurt & harm none, nor the same in return, & not what the dick wants...When the beers & music ended, I gave her $200 for her time spent with me, & each walked away on separate paths, without any emotional strings attached over a night's conversational affair....a night's fantasy event that would be forgotten when the sun rises, for each to face the challenges of a new day, on one's own & determination.....