if like this girl who is malay muslim, should continue or 短痛不如长痛?

[syed putra]

. Punjabi brahmin guy married to a Malay girl. No conversion. He stopped taking pork out of respect for the wife. He was banished from his family until the first grandchild came along

Bahyee also dontch take pork.

 

[syed putra]

How come 1 and 2 can get married but not 4?

 

[superpower]

Bahyee also dontch take pork.

This Punjabi friend loves char siew

 

[superpower]

How come 1 and 2 can get married but not 4?

They wanted Muslim marriage in mosque. Mufti said no, because husband did not convert. But London mufti said OK. LOL

 

[syed putra]

They wanted Muslim marriage in mosque. Mufti said no, because husband did not convert. But London mufti said OK. LOL

That is a silly request considering guy refuse to convert. Can just do civil wedding.

 

[Hypocrite-The]

I know a couple of cases. All happy marriages.

1. Malay guy married to a Indian Catholic girl. No conversion. He stays Muslim, she stays Catholic. Children will decide which religion to follow when they're old enough. Malay guy's family and relatives didn't attend the wedding.

2. Malay guy married to a Chinese Christian girl. He converted to Christianity and was ostracised by his family. No Muslim friends or family attended the church wedding.

3. Punjabi brahmin guy married to a Malay girl. No conversion. He stopped taking pork out of respect for the wife. He was banished from his family until the first grandchild came along.

4. Chinese guy married to Malay girl. Both professionals. No conversion. Local mufti refused to grant a Muslim marriage here, so got married in a mosque in London. Children baptised as Muslims.

All 4 scenarios..the common theme is Kenna ostracised by mudslime family. Other side ok....talk about mudslime tolerance etc...wat a load of BS

 

[superpower]

That is a silly request considering guy refuse to convert. Can just do civil wedding.

The girl's Malay parents (weatlhy) insisted on it. Not the couple themselves

 

[Franjipani]

U mean u take too long to piak her until she pain , but piak too short,u jin sayang heart pain?

i want to piak her with love mutual way and when we r ready to.commit to.each other unlike my other situations

 

[The Crow]

Small price. Just need to potong. Small matter.

Potong salah then really become "短痛" 又短又痛...

 

[superpower]

All 4 scenarios..the common theme is Kenna ostracised by mudslime family. Other side ok....talk about mudslime tolerance etc...wat a load of BS

Yes. The ostracisation is from the Muslim side. They call apostates murtad, and apostasy is punishable by death in some Islamic cultures.

The murtad is considered a lower class of humans than the kafir (non-believer).

 

[Hypocrite-The]

Yes. The ostracisation is from the Muslim side. They call apostates murtad, and apostasy is punishable by death in some Islamic cultures.

So singkieland is better ...get ostracised and not executed

 

[superpower]

So singkieland is better ...get ostracised and not executed

For mixed Islamic-non-Islamic marriages, definitely yes. Better than M'sia at any rate.

 

[superpower]

A Malay can marry a non-Muslim in Singapore under civil law, but not in Malaysia. That's the difference.​

* * *​

When a Malaysian Muslim enters interfaith marriage overseas​

KUALA LUMPUR: Marriages registered overseas between Malaysian Muslims and non-Muslim foreigners are neither allowed nor recognised under Malaysian law, should the couple choose to later reside in Malaysia, religious affairs minister Na’im Mokhtar said in the Dewan Rakyat.

The minister said the civil law on marriages – the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976 – does not apply to a Muslim or to anyone who gets married under Islamic laws if their partner is a non-Muslim. Such marriages cannot be registered under the civil law, he added.

For the Muslims, the Islamic Family Law (Federal Territory) Act 1984 states that no man can marry a non-Muslim woman and vice versa.

“If a Muslim was to marry someone of a different faith, their partner has to convert to Islam,” Na’im said in a written reply to Ngeh Khoo Ham (PH-Beruas).

Ngeh had asked whether interfaith marriages registered overseas between Malaysian Muslims and non-Muslim foreigners would be recognised once the couple return to Malaysia.

https://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/c...n-muslim-enters-interfaith-marriage-overseas/

 

[Hypocrite-The]

A Malay can marry a non-Muslim in Singapore under civil law, but not in Malaysia. That's the difference.​

* * *​

When a Malaysian Muslim enters interfaith marriage overseas​

KUALA LUMPUR: Marriages registered overseas between Malaysian Muslims and non-Muslim foreigners are neither allowed nor recognised under Malaysian law, should the couple choose to later reside in Malaysia, religious affairs minister Na’im Mokhtar said in the Dewan Rakyat.

The minister said the civil law on marriages – the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976 – does not apply to a Muslim or to anyone who gets married under Islamic laws if their partner is a non-Muslim. Such marriages cannot be registered under the civil law, he added.

For the Muslims, the Islamic Family Law (Federal Territory) Act 1984 states that no man can marry a non-Muslim woman and vice versa.

“If a Muslim was to marry someone of a different faith, their partner has to convert to Islam,” Na’im said in a written reply to Ngeh Khoo Ham (PH-Beruas).

Ngeh had asked whether interfaith marriages registered overseas between Malaysian Muslims and non-Muslim foreigners would be recognised once the couple return to Malaysia.

https://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/c...n-muslim-enters-interfaith-marriage-overseas/

Wat a tolerant religion

 

[superpower]

Wat a tolerant religion

The sad truth is that the Islamic religion is still stuck at the stage where Christianity was in the Middle Ages - crusades, witch hunts, Inquisitions, persecution of scientists - before scientific materialism took over. Intolerant, autocratic, fundamentalist, martial. Save for a few minor enlightened offshoots like Sufism and Baha'i. Reforms are badly needed, but they'll have to come from within, not without, the fraternity.

 

[syed putra]

4 scenarios..the common theme is Kenna ostracised by mudslime family. Other side ok....talk about mudslime tolerance etc...wat a load of BS

Yes. The ostracisation is from the Muslim side. They call apostates murtad, and apostasy is punishable by death in some Islamic cultures.

Non Muslim marriage must give angpow. Malays cannot afford.

 

[JohnTan]

All 4 scenarios..the common theme is Kenna ostracised by mudslime family. Other side ok....talk about mudslime tolerance etc...wat a load of BS

It's a moslem teaching that if the kids leave the mohammedan religion, the parents would go to hell. That teaching freaks out moslem parents and gets moslem parents to apply a lot of social pressure on their kids to remain in the religion. Not for the kids' sake, but for the parents' salvation.
Seems very selfish to me, but that moslem strategy has proven effective generally in forcing the other marriage partner to marry into the mohammedan religion.

 

[Hypocrite-The]

It's a moslem teaching that if the kids leave the mohammedan religion, the parents would go to hell. That teaching freaks out moslem parents and gets moslem parents to apply a lot of social pressure on their kids to remain in the religion. Not for the kids' sake, but for the parents' salvation.
Seems very selfish to me, but that moslem strategy has proven effective generally in forcing the other marriage partner to marry into the mohammedan religion.

Me thinks the mudslimes religion have no concept of love. That why all this hate, deceit, rape n pillage and plunder, is soo normal to them

 

[Patriotmissile]

I have never seen a good looking and sexy and fresh beer lady in Sinkapore so far...lao auntie maybe.

 

[syed putra]

It's a moslem teaching that if the kids leave the mohammedan religion, the parents would go to hell. That teaching freaks out moslem parents and gets moslem parents to apply a lot of social pressure on their kids to remain in the religion. Not for the kids' sake, but for the parents' salvation.
Seems very selfish to me, but that moslem strategy has proven effective generally in forcing the other marriage partner to marry into the mohammedan religion.

Abraham asked the same question. But the answer was that each will be judged individually.