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Was he in touched with you before this bomb came? If more than 3 mths not in touch, then don't bother to go or give becos he is actually not your friend, just acquaintance.
If u are loaded and generous and in a good mood,u may give ang pao to your ns mate.
The amount of ang pao depends on how deep is your relationship n venue of wedding eg at HDB void deck ,at restaurant or at hotel.
Depend of what kind of friend. If you don't like him or he is kwai lan type, take such invitation as a form of threat.
You can then ask him to go fly kite. There is no obligation to give Ang Pao.
Happened to me before when a JHK colleague of mine tried mass invitations to force people to attend his wedding and keep harassing me to attend.
End up I not only didn't attend but also no Ang Bao because this farker is damn xialan at work.