But you bought a landed house in 
JB, right? 
		
		
	
	
In other words, you made a 
bad investment decision, based on 
too much greed, simply because 
even if the market value (even in 
S$ terms) of your JB house is 
higher now than what it was when you bought it some years ago, it means 
nothing as long as:
1. you have 
not managed to 
sell it because you still 
can't find a buyer; 
or if you 
have managed to sell it, then 
congratulations!
In fact, I would say that even if you sell it at a 
loss, I would still consider you to be 
lucky, simply because you managed to find a buyer and, therefore, managed to 
recover at least some of your capital.
2. your 
quality of life goes 
down because of 
bad neighbours, among other unpleasant things, to say the least.
If I were you, I would have chosen the 
less risky option of simply 
remaining married to your ex-husband and trying your 
very best to be a 
submissive housewife! :p 
You are 
no saint, but you 
dare to call yourself "SaintGin"? 
 o_O 
 
This is  
precisely why many members of this forum think you are 
mentally/psychologically ill; I'm 
also suspecting you are suffering from:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paranoia
("
Paranoia is an instinct or thought process believed to be heavily influenced by anxiety or fear, often to the point of delusion and irrationality. Paranoid thinking typically includes persecutory, or beliefs of conspiracy concerning a perceived threat towards oneself (e.g. the American colloquial phrase,"Everyone is out to get me"). .... Making false accusations and the general distrust of others also frequently accompany paranoia. For example, an incident most people would view as an accident or coincidence, a paranoid person might believe was intentional. Paranoia is a central symptom of psychosis.")
Whatever you do in 
your real life is 
none of the business of all the 
numerous sammyboy.com members you have 
verbally/psychologically attacked in this 
online forum, simply because the 
reality is that 
none of them are 
your real-life neighbours in JB.
Unfortunately for many of us, starting from a few years ago (2015 at the latest, i.e. the year of the last General Election):
sammyboy.com/threads/boss-leongsam-can-verify-these-are-clones.216526
you 
chose to conclude that certain members were "insinuating" 
you in their threads or posts, and started attacking them 
first with 
ZERO proof (other than 
your own imagination) and by:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Playing_the_Victim
("
Victim playing (also known as playing the victim, victim card or self-victimization) is the fabrication of victimhood for a variety of reasons such as to justify abuse of others, to manipulate others, a coping strategy or attention seeking.")