The insignificant nobody me wanted to avoid such foul lingo threads, but having read its contents, it does deserves better discussions & understandings...
ALL Humans were once kids & no kid have not been read or read on their own of fairy tales, of VIPs, fed with dreams & hopes of something better in life, an inspiration & aspiration, a goal to look forward too, till the REALITIES of life sinks in at ages of 10, among peers of different social standings, expectations & lifestyles....
What kids learnt during their FORMATIVE years often sticks with them & critically - for a better life
But some are unaware of the RESPONSIBILITIES & SACRIFICES needed for a better life in our highly competitive world. Some realized realities & achieved their goals & maturity early, some take times, & sadly - some just grow old but NEVER GREW UP.
Pampering a lady is a gentlemanly thing to do, & for a lady to shower her love with outward displays of affection is normal & enhances a relationship, but NO Human - male or female can live on knees to each other FOREVER & not be taken advantage of. Thus, a need for doses of REALITY once a while to keep the mutual relationship based upon the high dimension of love realistic & long....
All the best to her dreams, but for LOVE to work, it takes 2 to clap. Each has a role to play in a relationship meant for realistic & pragmatic life. When one refuses such responsibilities & compromises but only to live in childhood fantasy filled daydreams - he/she is out of their minds....