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Domestic help may still be required, but only for certain cases, examples are like for sick/disabled elderlies in the home, disabled family members, etc. But for regular chores like sweeping, dishwashing, laundry, some cooking, these can be assigned to different members within the family. Everybody has to make sacrifices for the running of the household. I remember as a boy, my female cousins couldn't go out to play when the boys were fortunate to be free and spared from many chores like sorting out vegetables, folding laundry, ironing clothes, etc. Boys' chores were less domestic, and less regular, but we still had to bathe the dog, help dad wash the car. Girls weren't permitted to hangout with friends after dinner, whereas we boys stayed out at the sarabat stalls till they closed at midnight! All these while still completing homework and school assignments! We didn't have a maid, but had an old grand aunty who lived with us. She took care of the laundry (earlier, we had no washing-machine and she did the laundry manually!!), and she was fantastic in the kitchen, besides cooking the three meals, she was able to make all the CNY kuehs and bak chang when the seasons came around. After she passed away, things have not been the same. I remember she made all our belachan from scratch, laid them out to dry in the sun, and my job was to shoo away/catch the flies which gathered by the hundreds where the belachan was laid.
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Precisely my point sir. Sinkies are getting soft! They did not have to do household chores like their mothers do in the time because of all these third world maids. Absolutely disgraceful! The crux of the matter is that maids have become too accessible, so much that regular children do not have to worry about chores at home. We cannot afford to let the poor and the middle class to become weak and effeminate. The final solution is to ban maids altogether for low income households earning less than 100k per annum, not replace good Singaporean values of hard work and discipline by replicating simple household chores in schools.