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Emotionally abusive mother

hairylee

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How does one handle a very negative and emotionally abusive mother.
Communications, anger and what not does not seem to affect them a little bit. Worst they poke their nose into ones daily lives.
 
depends on how old 'you' are lah.

if still schooling and need mum to give pocket $, then lan lan bear with it.

if already out working, then bochap her nags etc. slowly she will feel neglected and maybe will change for the better.
 
Come on lah, you only have one mother...Love her unconditionally.
Her naggings could be finetuned into lullabies she used to sing you to sleep...
Always love your parents.
 
How does one handle a very negative and emotionally abusive mother.
Communications, anger and what not does not seem to affect them a little bit. Worst they poke their nose into ones daily lives.

simple, i just ignore mine :D
 
How does one handle a very negative and emotionally abusive mother.
Communications, anger and what not does not seem to affect them a little bit. Worst they poke their nose into ones daily lives.

That sounds very bad. End of the day just try to ignore her and keep reminding yourself that she is your mother.

All other religion will tell you to pray for her as well. Personally I say time to create your own happy place and withdraw there once in a while to maintain your sanity. Best of luck.
 
How does one handle a very negative and emotionally abusive mother.
Communications, anger and what not does not seem to affect them a little bit. Worst they poke their nose into ones daily lives.

I moved to another country. Then call her up everyday. It reached the point where she stopped nagging and even said don't call everyday. After that point, its a slow process. Some things won't change, she has been like this for a very long time. But you can definitely change the relationship you have with her. Plus the distance helps.
 
How does one handle a very negative and emotionally abusive mother.
Communications, anger and what not does not seem to affect them a little bit. Worst they poke their nose into ones daily lives.

The reason a mother being abusive is because she is seeking attention. Give her attention, shower her with love, hug her and kiss her every day.
 
u have no fucking clue boundthunter

Don't tell me you hate your mother that bad. She wasted 9 and a half months carrying you around and had to put up with your temper. Epic failure on her behalf and I really felt sorry for her.

Oohhh....If only contraceptives were available then, sigh...:(
 
U can stay out if u wan! Keeping a distance away doesn't mean u are not filial!
 
Don't tell me you hate your mother that bad. She wasted 9 and a half months carrying you around and had to put up with your temper. Epic failure on her behalf and I really felt sorry for her.

Oohhh....If only contraceptives were available then, sigh...:(

Fuck you idiot! I did not ask to be born. If I ask to come to this world then it is my duty to look after her for life.
 
Fuck you idiot! I did not ask to be born. If I ask to come to this world then it is my duty to look after her for life.


:D:D Hahaha...If I am an idiot, then you're an even bigger idiot in not trying to break the cycle. Maybe, one day, your offsprings will hate you too and completes the cycle.

Good luck anyway, though you won't have that because a mother hater will not have any luck or peace of mind.:rolleyes:
 
How does one handle a very negative and emotionally abusive mother.
Communications, anger and what not does not seem to affect them a little bit. Worst they poke their nose into ones daily lives.

Just ignore her, she will get the message.
 
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