I agree with you bro...
I have a fren, who has already in a relationship for 5 years.
No sex.. but oral can wow...
his gf treat him very good and faithful lor... everything is good jus tat no sex wow... now he confuse... whether to keep or to dump...
is there anyone in this kind of relationship in the modern days now?...
If its me, no need 5 years. 5 months never enter, I find excuse to each go their own ways. We must be effective and productive.
I try the product, while the product thinks I am the product. So we both have to try out each other to see whether suitable. The women's charter don't protect us. First of all, we must understand why they don't want have sex, but can pcc and oral sex. These kind of category of girls are not ignorant about sex. They know what is sexual intercourse, but they are just not prepared to do with you. They want to wait till the rice is cooked (meaning both are legally married) then they let you enter her. For what reason, they know best. The air of secrecy and exclusivity is only for them, and they simply don't understand what guys want. Girls want love, guys want sex. We can give them love, but if they cannot give you sex, then its 1 way traffic. After marriage, you are likely to be abused because they are at the upper hand. Your finance will be tied because you are no longer the ruler. Girls who give you sex understand what u need. These type of girls are the ones who will likely be a better wife than those who maintain celibacy before marriage. Before marriage already rule like PAP, so imagine the choices you have after marriage. These type of girls can leave the sex part to other men if they happened to meet one handsome guy and go for 1 night stand, while they give you the handjob and the blowjob because they know you can take it, so why is there a further need to go for intercourse?
Normally in a relationship which is steady for at least 2-3 years and everything can, then marriage becomes just a certification and security for the girl. If can't even go through the 2-3 years smoothly, I wonder what about the next 20-30 years sleeping with each other.
You start to question yourself, are you sleeping with your wife or a stranger?
If you start sleeping with a stranger, then might as well sleep with a prostitute. At least you know she try to make you happy. :p