yup ,your friend is right ..in Nigeria just as other parts of Africa, the girls initiate the move so there is no lack for want of fucks ..but you yourself should be desirable to them ..therein lies the problem but we aa foreigners have that appeal for them
but what held me back many a times is the rampant spread of AIDS ,you just wouldn't know whether you gonna get it or not even with condom
hence, I chickened out even in the most safest places in Africa ,it's not worth risking your life for a good time