close best friend did not turn up for brother's wake.

[skyfall]

Just seeking opinions.
my brother passed away.
however, my closest best friend did not turn up for the wake.
he was free.
not even a text message to send his condolence.
i was very surprised and shocked.
should i ask him or just let things be the way it is?
frankly, this has affected my level of faith and trust and friendship with him.
please speak frankly.

 

[wendychan]

Not such a friend then

 

[Black Swan]

No big deal. During good times, your friends know you. During bad times, you know your friends.

Having said that, I know of some people, being extremely superstitious, will not attend wake of friends etc.

 

[krafty]

friend...dun blame him...this is the mentality of sinkies developed after years of governance by pap. i am sure about it, no doubt!!!

Just seeking opinions.
my brother passed away.
however, my closest best friend did not turn up for the wake.
he was free.
not even a text message to send his condolence.
i was very surprised and shocked.
should i ask him or just let things be the way it is?
frankly, this has affected my level of faith and trust and friendship with him.
please speak frankly.

 

[BuiKia]

Do not judge a person based on one incident.

You say he is a close friend, then you must have know him for a long time. Judge him based on those years instead.

Maybe he doesn't even know about the death?

Just seeking opinions.
my brother passed away.
however, my closest best friend did not turn up for the wake.
he was free.
not even a text message to send his condolence.
i was very surprised and shocked.
should i ask him or just let things be the way it is?
frankly, this has affected my level of faith and trust and friendship with him.
please speak frankly.

 

[Sinkie]

Oredi dead.....cum also like dat.

 

[laksaboy]

Just seeking opinions.
my brother passed away.
however, my closest best friend did not turn up for the wake.
he was free.
not even a text message to send his condolence.
i was very surprised and shocked.
should i ask him or just let things be the way it is?
frankly, this has affected my level of faith and trust and friendship with him.
please speak frankly.

Wakes are overrated. It's another stupid Chinese way to flaunt wealth: material wealth and social wealth.

I would very much prefer the Muslim way: no fuss, no muss, no wakes, no bands, dead and buried on the same day.

 

[krafty]

ya...stupid is the word used to describe emperor lee's sons and grand children, their future and career has been taken care all their life, i bet they'd be at a loss when he is gone.

 

[GramStroker]

My best friend is Johnny.
Never let's me down.
You should get to know him too.

 

[pyshock]

Maybe your friend "pantang", believes he cannot get involved with 白事。
My mom's wake was held during CNY period, many of my good friends never showed up.

 

[kryonlight]

Maybe your friend "pantang", believes he cannot get involved with 白事。

Yes, Taoists especially. Or maybe his friend has psychological issues dealing with death, especially death of loved ones.

 

[hokkien]

Simple, when his turn next..... Dont turn up

 

[gongkia]

Just seeking opinions.
my brother passed away.
however, my closest best friend did not turn up for the wake.
he was free.
not even a text message to send his condolence.
i was very surprised and shocked.
should i ask him or just let things be the way it is?
frankly, this has affected my level of faith and trust and friendship with him.
please speak frankly.

What is your best friend religion belief?

 

[Semaj2357]

My best friend is Johnny.
Never let's me down.
You should get to know him too.

yeah, every guy has a best friend - his five fingers and never let's him down....here's johnny!:p

 

[no_faith]

maybe he has something on cant attend.
maybe he does not know your brother really well.
he is not oblige to attend right?

jus my views. no offence.

 

[Stompiss]

Please don't call me during Scroobal's wake, I'm not free, I will be fucking a Thai frog

 

[Jesus Christ]

Please don't call me during Scroobal's wake, I'm not free, I will be fucking a Thai frog

Why am I not surprised? Faggots. Ptuiiiiiiii!......LO........LOL

 

[Debonerman]

Please be polite. Like your frog Prince the very rich man. Faggots.....LO......LOL

 

[virus]

Just seeking opinions.
my brother passed away.
however, my closest best friend did not turn up for the wake.
he was free.
not even a text message to send his condolence.
i was very surprised and shocked.
should i ask him or just let things be the way it is?
frankly, this has affected my level of faith and trust and friendship with him.
please speak frankly.

after 16 posts. i have to post this...

who did you vote for? did your bros drink soursop and eat vegan?

 

[looneytan]

after 16 posts. i have to post this...

who did you vote for? did your bros drink soursop and eat vegan?

... you forgot to guess the race