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Chinese or Malay Girl?

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My friend had been facing problems in his dating life. He is currently dating 2 girls at the same time, one is a Chinese and the other Malay. He is Chinese.

Both girls had expressed interest to continue the relationship further. He prefers the Malay girl but the girl is way out of his league and has a lot of admirers. He just wants a girl that is faithful. From your experience, which one is more likely to be faithful after marriage har?
 
Let's put it this way, if your frd is not rich, then he better pray hard.

Money makes a marriage work despite all the bullshit ppl say. If you cannot afford a maid, and wife has to work and take care of kids, you think she will tahan and not quarrel with u?
 
Is your friend ready to convert to Islam and add a Mohammed's name in his ic?
 
If I were your friend, just continue the dating game... enjoy! Marriage is not a must to further his relationship...

If you love me... don't make me choose.
 
I asked him the same question. He say it is okay since he will continue drinking and only stop eating pork. To him, the religion is just to make the girl parent feel better.
 
I asked him the same question. He say it is okay since he will continue drinking and only stop eating pork. To him, the religion is just to make the girl parent feel better.

1 thing for sure, ur friend is definitely not forummer ilovepork
 
I asked him the same question. He say it is okay since he will continue drinking and only stop eating pork. To him, the religion is just to make the girl parent feel better.

He is happy to cut his kuku also?
 
The Malay Gal will balloon up after marriage and your friend cannot anyhow eat during ramadan. I think better stick with the chinese gal.
 
He say cut already when young.

Oh, then go for the Malay girl then. Not sure about Singapore law regarding polygamy. But if he is allowed additional wives, it might not be a bad thing. Malay girls are also more open to things that Chinese girl would find "disgusting". In fact, if the law allows, marry the Chinese girl also. Don't think the religion is against the girl not converting.
 
btw can your friend play guitar, football & supar Tarkaw? If not hard to integrate to their community
 
My friend just want to know which race less faithful after marriage?

He say the Malay girl is a much better fuck as she is 10 years younger than him. Her figure better than the chinese girl and cleaner too.:D
 
My friend just want to know which race less faithful after marriage?

He say the Malay girl is a much better fuck as she is 10 years younger than him. Her figure better than the chinese girl and cleaner too.:D

Faithful or not depends on the person, not the race. Indeed, Malay girls are a better fuck then Singaporean chinese.
 
but what is marriage har ?
it is similiar like lah, lor, singlish sentence. lol.

imho, race does not determine who is faithful.
depend on the person.

i agreed malay gal figure might be better than the chinese gal but cleaner, i dunno wor. cuz their race seems like treating their gals like passing batons.
one to another.

no pork, no liquor, fast for 1 mth, treated as 2nd grade in their community,
have to learn speak melayu too, attend courses before covert.

so troublesome. marry the chinese, keep the malay gal as lover.
i tink this works.:D
 
These are emotional problems. Just listen to the heart. If anything goes wrong later there tends to be less regrets. You do not use your brain to solve emotional problems.
 
My friend had been facing problems in his dating life. He is currently dating 2 girls at the same time, one is a Chinese and the other Malay. He is Chinese.

Both girls had expressed interest to continue the relationship further. He prefers the Malay girl but the girl is way out of his league and has a lot of admirers. He just wants a girl that is faithful. From your experience, which one is more likely to be faithful after marriage har?

The problem is not with girls and women . The problem is the guy .

The problem of inadequacies with guys .
 
My friend had been facing problems in his dating life. He is currently dating 2 girls at the same time, one is a Chinese and the other Malay. He is Chinese.

Both girls had expressed interest to continue the relationship further. He prefers the Malay girl but the girl is way out of his league and has a lot of admirers. He just wants a girl that is faithful. From your experience, which one is more likely to be faithful after marriage har?
your fren has 2 choices, and both have different consequences.

marry the chinese:
she may be a typical sinkie biatch who'd build a toilet & shit over his head
she may make his life difficult with all the misc demands
if not happy, gotta divorce, split assets with the biatch (thanks to woman's charter)

marry the minah:
he probably has to convert, change his IC, get circumcised
minah being minah, she will either be loyal & submissive, or she'd sleep around behind his back

if not happy, need not divorce, he can marry a 2nd wife, if still not happy, can marry a 2rd wife, if still not happy, marry a 4th... if still not happy, he might as well die. 3 strikes in life proves he's a condemned failure.
 
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