The stories are true. Just mind fucking with you. BTW my 65 year old seaman friend who traveled the world also noticed that Malays do help others outside their race. He must be stereotyping too. Human race must got stereotyping genes in them. BTW, you haven't read my comments. Barely more than a sentence about Malays helping others (maybe I am a reverse racist for that omission). The Chinese have a belief system called 'Mai Chup' when others are involved. This belief system is reinforced. See an accident and your chinese companion will pull you away telling you 'mai chup, mai chup'. I am putting this observation in Singapore context, and of course I have to compare it with responses from other ethnic group like Malays and Indians. You are like my niece. Born under Eurasian parents and got teased chup-cheng endlessly in school. She is her 40s, moment she hear any racist comments she goes ballistic. Cool it man. Its okay to visit a shrink for advice. I did once too. Nothing to be ashamed about.