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Re: Ah Tiong society. Toddler got run over twice and no one cares
I share your sentiments.
And I wonder at this phenomena !....why is it that way?Why are Chinese by nature the least helpful?
Is it cultural,is it for lack of religion,is it dogma or doctrine that is genetically written?.....I am baffled.We simply cannot blame it entirely on communism because many of us local Chinese behave exactly as bad.
But I beg to differ on crowd watchers.My experience is empirical.I had personally seen in Indonesia and in India huge crowds gathering at accidents who does nothing but watches.So I suppose Chinese doing the same could be not be exclusively Chinese.But what bothers me is this lack of individualism part in the Chinese psyche.Can they only act collectively?.....is that why PAP rules us for more than 50 yrs?.....And the very reason why communism survives in China whereas it's dead worldwide?
This really requires some in depth study.
It's not unfair to say the Malays and Indians are more willingly to lend a helping hand than the chinese. Many chinese do not want to get involved which is their natural mindset. A female friend recalled her predicament during a tyre burst along a road(near a market) when she has just passed her driving test few weeks ago. she asked passerbys but no one wanted to help..Finally a Malay uncle came over and helped her change the tyre and even gave her some tips on how to change it herself in the future. She noticed there were alot of onlookers though. They were the same chinese uncles that walked away when she asked their help initially. Another incident involved my granny. She told how she fell down during a walk & and were bleeding. A kind Indian man asked her what happened and helped her to a bench nearby . By then a group of onlookers were gathering around her and they were all chinese. They seems to be contented just watching the commotion. When the man asked for a handkechief to stop the bleeding, all the onlookers walked away and watched at a further distance instead.
I remembered looking at a old photo of Japanese soldiers beheading chinese prisoners in WW2. Pictured of several hundreds of chinese onlookers made me wonder why they can just stood there watching as their compatriots are beheaded by just a handful of Japanese soldiers. No wonder the Japanese dared to massacre them in large numbers later in the war because they knew the chinese are just afraid of the Japanese.
I share your sentiments.
And I wonder at this phenomena !....why is it that way?Why are Chinese by nature the least helpful?
Is it cultural,is it for lack of religion,is it dogma or doctrine that is genetically written?.....I am baffled.We simply cannot blame it entirely on communism because many of us local Chinese behave exactly as bad.
But I beg to differ on crowd watchers.My experience is empirical.I had personally seen in Indonesia and in India huge crowds gathering at accidents who does nothing but watches.So I suppose Chinese doing the same could be not be exclusively Chinese.But what bothers me is this lack of individualism part in the Chinese psyche.Can they only act collectively?.....is that why PAP rules us for more than 50 yrs?.....And the very reason why communism survives in China whereas it's dead worldwide?
This really requires some in depth study.