Ok la, cut to the chase,
how many partners have you had?
what is the wildest thing you've done?
why are you single?
I help all these ah pek ask the questions they've been dying to ask, but paiseh to ask while they try to chat you up.
Poomer, if you intend to ask me if I am still a virgin, I can tell you - NO.
I had a boyfriend in university days. As we graduated and started work, he went to a small company, while, because I am a second-upper honours graduate, I joined a bigger and reputable company. I think income disparity became a "touchy" point for him and we drifted, though I really did not mind paying for meals (which I did) and did not expect expensive gifts from him. Maybe he had an inferiority complex, but I certainly did not have a superiority complex.
If you asking whether I did slept with him before, I did. Nothing to be ashamed about as we are all adults.
Following the breakup, I enjoyed a couple of years of singlehood and through introduction from some of my girlfriends, I got to know a Brit. Well, it lasted for half a year as I do not subscribe to the "western" kind of culture and food. I am a typical Asian girl who enjoys local Asian dishes. Perhaps, its my grandma and mother's cooking which I enjoy most, and hence my orientation towards Asian culture and music.
Nonetheless, having a Brit as a boyfriend was an eye-opener, not only for myself but for my girlfriends who came to know about it. They will ask me the most inane questions - for instance if he was better in bed; if he is rich and the most stupid of all conclusion is that I can become a UK passport holder through marriage with him.
Anyway, it did not work out as there were too many cultural differences. Perhaps, I have a strong character that he cannot accept.
Wildest thing I have done, I am not sure which angle you are coming from. If you are referring to the intimate angle, well, I have done what couples usually do. I guess there is no need for specifics unless you have a fetish for such information.
I am single because I have decided to concentrate on my career. Maybe someone will come along, maybe not. It is fate. What is mine will be mine and what isn't will never be.
I hope it answer your questions