[AMA] I am a Singaporean Woman

[takashi]

On moderation, perhaps I may be wrong, but I do believe I have been prejudiced given that some other new members are out of the queue earlier than me. Nonetheless, it is a small issue and I bear no grudges.

May I ask, which members who joined after you were "out of the queue earlier than" you?
I just checked:
sammyboy.com/memberlist.php?s=&sort=joindate&order=DESC
and noticed that, as of now, only seven new members have joined after you and none have posted (except one who has posted only once so far and is still under moderation).

 

[Claire]

Life is short, perhaps, it is a good attitude not to bear grudges.

You are in your thirties, and probably the best time in our life: completed education, at or near the peak of career, numerous choices in terms of career, friends, dating or not to date, accumulation of wealth and assets for retirement or next phase in life.

I am surprised that you are such a nice guy. I had expected nasty posts when I decided to stat a thread. Well, it is a pleasant surprise

Yes, Charlie. I believe I have not peaked in my career. I would probably peaked in the mid forties. As for choices in friends and dating, it all depends on fate. No point chasing after something, or someone if it is not fated to be mine.

I am glad that I do not need to worry about money. I am my parents' only child and more likely than not, I will inherit everything that they have built and acquired all these years.

 

[Claire]

May I ask, which members who joined after you were "out of the queue earlier than" you?
I just checked:
sammyboy.com/memberlist.php?s=&sort=joindate&order=DESC
and noticed that, as of now, only seven new members have joined after you and none have posted (except one who has posted only once so far and is still under moderation).

Takashi, I believe a member named tomychua is out of mod as early as 5 posts.

 

[Claire]

Thanks for the straightforward answer. We're here because we spend quite a bit of our time at the computer. I come here because it feels a lot like my old bunch of friends crapping away at the sarabat stalls (or kopitiam these days), and the subject matter is - anything or whatever crosses our mind, stupid or not. I call it "Time well-wasted!" Welcome. Nice to stumble into you.

Cheers!

My pleasure as well

 

[Thick Face Black Heart]

Well, first, a bit of myself since I am new here as a posting member.

I am Claire XXXX (kept confidential for privacy reasons). I am born in Singapore, studied here and graduated from a local university. I am in my 30s and from an above middle income family. My father is a professional (retired now) and my mum has been a housewife all these years.

Welcome to the forum and enjoy your stay.

 

[Claire]

Welcome to the forum and enjoy your stay.

Thank you, Thick Face Black Heart!

Your name is rather long. i shall address you as Thick, if you do not mind.

 

[takashi]

Takashi, I believe a member named tomychua is out of mod as early as 5 posts.

If you're referring to:
http://www.sammyboy.com/member.php?109280-tomychua
he has over 2,000 points after joining only two days ago, so he probably paid some money or is some kind of "special" member who was GIVEN those 2,000+ points for FREE, and therefore got EXEMPTED from moderation.

 

[takashi]

Your name is rather long. i shall address you as Thick, if you do not mind.

"Thick" happens to be British slang for:

"Of low intelligence; stupid"
oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/thick
:p

 

[Rogue Trader]

Well, first, a bit of myself since I am new here as a posting member.
..

I'm sorry dear. You're a year late. I'm happily married now.

Please don't feel too depressed and slit your wrists ok?

 

[Claire]

If you're referring to:
http://www.sammyboy.com/member.php?109280-tomychua
he has over 2,000 points after joining only two days ago, so he probably paid some money or is some kind of "special" member who was given those 2,000+ points for free, and therefore got EXEMPTED from moderation.

Takeshi, sorry, the screen turned into an error 552 message just now as I click summit reply. Not sure why.

Oh, you mean that is a premium member system? Well, I learnt something new. So what is the difference between those members who are red and blue? Both the same?

 

[Claire]

"Thick" happens to be British slang for:

"Of low intelligence; stupid"
oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/thick
:p

Oh c'mon, surely you are trying to stir unnecessary animosity here.

 

[Claire]

I'm sorry dear. You're a year late. I'm happily married now.

Please don't feel too depressed and slit your wrists ok?

Hi Rogue, good for you to be happily married. I will never commit suicide because of men.

 

[Charlie99]

I am surprised that you are such a nice guy. I had expected nasty posts when I decided to stat a thread. Well, it is a pleasant surprise

Yes, Charlie. I believe I have not peaked in my career. I would probably peaked in the mid forties. As for choices in friends and dating, it all depends on fate. No point chasing after something, or someone if it is not fated to be mine.

I am glad that I do not need to worry about money. I am my parents' only child and more likely than not, I will inherit everything that they have built and acquired all these years.

Very well.
Good that you have the comfort and luxury to be independent, progress in your career and profession with no worry about financial resources, and the probable inheritance.
Accordingly, may I suggest that you consider not to work unreasonable long hours and/or extended work days, or 6 to 7 days a week regardless whether or not it is considered necessary to progress to your career peak.
Life is short, enjoy the journey and the world.
If you wish, you may send me a private message.
Enjoy your day.

Toronto, Oct 21, 2015, 1120 hours

 

[Claire]

Very well.
Good that you have the comfort and luxury to be independent, progress in your career and profession with no worry about financial resources, and the probable inheritance.
Accordingly, may I suggest that you consider not to work unreasonable long hours and/or extended work days, or 6 to 7 days a week regardless whether or not it is considered necessary to progress to your career peak.
Life is short, enjoy the journey and the world.
If you wish, you may send me a private message.
Enjoy your day.

Toronto, Oct 21, 2015, 1120 hours

Charlie, you are so pleasant. When I read your message above, it sounded like an older brother advising me. Strange but true. Perhaps, I am the only child and never had an elder brother!

I will bear your kind words in mind. Thank you very much.

 

[takashi]

Takeshi, sorry, the screen turned into an error 552 message just now as I click summit reply. Not sure why.

It happens at this time of the day nearly everyday and it happened to me too, but it's not a big deal.

Oh, you mean that is a premium member system? Well, I learnt something new.

Yes, near the top of the page: http://www.sammyboy.com/verotelsubscribe.php


By the way, just in case you missed this post of mine:

Well, here I am - a RCP. Forgive me for the HWZ-EDMW terminology, but HWZ-EDMW is THE forum in Singapore at the moment and hence these often used terminology.

But are you aware that even at the HWZ-EDMW forum, most of the posters are probably male and "RCP" is usually used by Sinkie males to refer to real women?

If you were a real woman, especially a decent one earning over 150k every year from your employer, why would you call yourself a "real cheebye" or "real cheesepie" or "RCP"?

talkingcock.com/html/lexec.php?op=LexLink&lexicon=lexicon&keyword=CHEE%20BYE
(One of the rudest terms in Singlish. Essentially, "vagina", though not confined to clinical gynecological circumstances. The English equivalent would be "cunt".)

 

[Claire]

It happens at this time of the day nearly everyday and it happened to me too, but it's not a big deal.



Yes, near the top of the page: http://www.sammyboy.com/verotelsubscribe.php


By the way, just in case you missed this post of mine:

Takeshi, I really do not have any clue how the term RCP evolves in HWZ-EDMW. All I know is that it refers to a woman who is neither GCP or DCP. The angle of your line of questions will not bear fruit if we dwell on this to and fro.

 

[takashi]

Oh c'mon, surely you are trying to stir unnecessary animosity here.

The short form for his nick is "TFBH".

 

[eatshitndie]

welcum! i have a single (never married) female sinkie friend who is the only child, and she lives in her family home in serangoon gardens. there's hardly anybody home because her parents have retired in malaysia. she was making us$120k when i last sent her off back to sg from the bay area. she's in her 40s.

 

[Claire]

The short form for his nick is "TFBH".

Oh, thanks for the info However, I do not think it is polite to assume unless this is how he wants to be addressed.

 

[Claire]

welcum! i have a single (never married) female sinkie friend who is the only child, and she lives in her family home in serangoon gardens. there's hardly anybody home because her parents have retired in malaysia. she was making us$120k when i last sent her off back to sg from the bay area. she's in her 40s.

I am not sure your post is a question or telling me something which I am not interested at all.