34 year old student report police for harassment, guess the race.

[Cottonmouth]

A Master's student of Nanyang Technological University's (NTU) was accused of harassment by students in his university class following an incident where he "made a joke" directed at a female classmate.

In response, he has filed a police report against them.
The 34-year-old man is currently studying at NTU Wee Kim Wee School of Communication and Information's Master of Media and Communication (MMC).

Accused of following female students to bus stop, claims to be on the same route home​

James* (not his real name) wrote to Mothership and recounted the incident, which took place on Valentine's Day (Feb. 14).
He said that students in a Media and Leadership class had just carried out a presentation, and were giving out Hershey's Kisses chocolate.
According to James, he had joked about wanting a "kiss" from Tricia* (not her real name), one of the female students presenting.
Although he said he was referring to the chocolate itself, James claimed that Tricia "did not like the joke as it puts her [under the] spotlight in class".
In his email to Mothership, he wrote:

"So, I made a joke in class about wanting a Kiss (The chocolate) from one of the girls presenting ... Because she did not like the joke as it puts her on the spotlight in class, she decided to complain about me to Professor Ang Peng Hwa, our class Professor, that the joke was 'out of context' and a harassment (when it was actually just a joke)."

James added that Tricia, along with other female students, also accused him of following them to the bus stop "all the time".
He said in his email to Mothership that these are "false allegations" about him.
In his defence, James stated that he has to take the same bus (Bus 179) from the same bus stop as the female students, followed by MRT from Pioneer MRT station every night to get to his hostel which is located in Queenstown.
He added that he had to talked to his male friends who were the ladies at the same time.

"Just so you know, I have to take the same bus (Bus 179 in NTU) at the same bus stop with them all the time at the NTU Wee Kim Wee School of Communication building and have to take the same MRT Station (Pioneer MRT) every night because I am an international student from Malaysia and I live in [XXX] in Queenstown and there is completely NOTHING WRONG to strike up a conversation with ANY of my classmates on the way with me."

He added:

"Unless freedom of speech and freedom of movement is a crime in Singapore, I don't see how striking up conversations with friends on the same route home (especially your classmates) at the Bus Stop and MRT platform and in the MRT is considered a crime or harassment."

Student body emails school about incident​

A day after receiving James' email, Mothership received another tipoff from another MMC student in relation to this incident.
The student attached a screenshot of an email from the MMC student body sent to the school.
The email stated that the incident on Feb. 14 "caught a lot of us by surprise", and the students had collectively decided to "raise [their] concerns" to the school's management after witnessing the incident.
Additionally, several female students found James' behaviour "unsettling", the email wrote.
The email claimed that James had allegedly asked another student for their address and whereabouts "on a regular basis".
Another female student was allegedly approached by James and asked whether she wanted to hang out alone with him at his hostel.
The students hoped that the school would "have a conversation" with James and give the matter its "due consideration".

Professor tells student to stop behaviour​

Ang Peng Hwa, the Director of NTU MMC, was informed about the incident.
This prompted Ang to email James, where he said the joke about the "kiss" was "out of line", especially with the context that James had allegedly followed Tricia and other girls to the bus stop.
Ang ordered James to stop his behaviour by:

• Not following female students "in a manner that creates discomfort".
• Not communicating with/talking to female students "in a manner that makes them uncomfortable".

"If they tell you to back off, back off. Singapore has an anti-stalking law...When in doubt, be more conservative in your approach." he advised in an email dated on Feb. 15, 3:50pm.
The professor added that should there be further complaints against James, the university would be forced to "escalate the matter", which could lead to the convening of a disciplinary inquiry committee, expulsion, and the filing of a police report.
Here's a screenshot of the email from Ang, as shared by James:

Filed police report​

In his email to Mothership, James described the behaviour of Ang and the female students as "totally delusional".
He claimed that the group was out to pick on and he was bullied.
He has since filed a police report against his classmates and Ang.
He wrote in his email to Mothership:

"These girls and my professor are totally delusional and think that they are better than everyone else so they pick and bully Malaysians like me by making False Allegations about me. I am pressing charges on them and I want to see all of them EXPELLED from NTU and be sent to JAIL! I believe I have the right to be on that bus stop just like everybody else."

Mothership has reached out to NTU for comment, and will update this article accordingly.

 

[syed putra]

He should have used a bicycle.

 

[red amoeba]

he is not AMDK i imagine. Otherwise he would not only have gotten a kiss and much more from all the girls.

 

[JohnTan]

A beta sinkie?

 

[borom]

The supposed perpetrator or "respondent" James has said he is an international student from Malaysia-that explain his holier than thou foreigner attitude.
Had he served NS under me, I guarantee no such behaviour will ever happen-such types will be doing plenty of Sunday duties or be sent to DB in no time

 

[sweetiepie]

34 yo still doing stupid things of enrolling for ntu course ?

 

[Patriotmissile]

Are these creatures tiongs?

 

[rocket]

34 yo still doing stupid things of enrolling for ntu course ?

Malaysian doing masters. Sinkies go jiak sai.

 

[Focus]

Malaysian doing masters. Sinkies go jiak sai.

Wow! 34 years-old Malaysian get scholarships or subsidies for Masters Programs while Singaporean 34 years-old probably get skillsfuture.

 

[bobby]

Cannot be a m&d cos it is a masters degree class....

 

[ChristJohnny]

Cannot be a m&d cos it is a masters degree class....

Chink = Molest, Stalking, Cheap Trill, Voyeur
m&d = Fuck sister and mother, Incest ...

Race and IQ

 

[LordElrond]

This beta Sinkie clearly appears repulsive. On the other hand the girls are really softies… even this is considered a harassment

 

[tobelightlight]

he is not AMDK i imagine. Otherwise he would not only have gotten a kiss and much more from all the girls.

From what i see,

The thing is he is 34 years old and i presume the girls are in early 20s at least. When you are around 10 years older than the rest, especially females. Please... when you joke, you have to understand that 10 years diff is also considered a generation diff. The sense of joke and perception of it is different between the 2 generations especially something of sexual nature or love.

Either be student professional and set emotional boundaries, so you dun get messy with your classmates.

If this 34 year old is a married man with kids, the girls might just say the usual crap..oh i tell your wife har.. blah blah blah... girls will see him as a respected husband with a wife so he is safe.

And yes, you are correct. If this 34 year old looks like young brad bitt or tom cruise or korean boy BTS. then the girls will be angry if he didn't say kiss to them.

Worse is if this 34 year old look like some pervert or porn addict, then he better set boundaries.

Best of all, if this guy living a women-free life, he will just hack care all the valentine crap that deals heavily with females. he will be seeing himself enjoying chilled out time with nice drinks and dessert, throw in some good handheld games. no issues with classmates and get on with class and projects as usual.

My advice is to skip class during V-day and then you avoid all the nonsense.

 

[tobelightlight]

so much drama, then how to attend class with his classmates in future?

 

[tobelightlight]

wait, i read again.

He actually took the initiative to ask for the "kiss" chocolate. So that means he was not given one in the first place.

Then it says it all. He is not brad bitt material lah. please.. set boundaries as the girl already set one against you.

On another note, why give a chocolate with the word "kiss" , flirty and hint, is it.. maybe for the 20s group only lah, why you 34 year old kaypoh?

What if the guys give ice cream to the girls, what will the hint be? the 34 year old better dun give ice cream, later even messier and need MP to intervene.

 

[tobelightlight]

And yes, you are correct. If this 34 year old looks like young brad bitt or tom cruise. then the girls will be angry if he didn't say kiss to them.

Worse is if this 34 year old look like some pervert or porn addict, then he better set boundaries.

I read somewhere in the forum that there is a 21 year old vet girl married a 45 year old ( even older) why in this case, the girl like leh?

Because

She initially thought her husband was poor and was attracted to his appearance and charisma.

Brad bitt material lah. poor also nvm.

 

[50000]

he is not AMDK i imagine. Otherwise he would not only have gotten a kiss and much more from all the girls.

only AMDK wannabe, fu@kturd Malay Malaysian calling himself James

 

[bushtucker]

Nowadays sinkies' modus operandi when things go awry is to file a police report first to cover backside.