许文远博客叹：不养父母 羚羊不如

[po2wq]

许文远博客叹：不养父母　羚羊不如

有子女送父母去疗养院，还把护士当女佣差遣，指使每餐后为父母刷牙（图／档案照）；卫生部长许文远以野兽尚懂不弃家人，希望子女勿忘报父母养育之恩（小图／取自卫生部博客）。
把护士当女佣，把父母当皮球，卫生部长许文远参观本地一间疗养院后，有感本地许多子女不想养育父母，连羚羊都不如。

许文远日前在卫生部博客网站撰文，说近来有医院发现子女拒把出院的父母接回家，反而要送去疗养院。

送进疗养院后，又有子女“刁难”护士，把她们当女佣差遣，部长听后不免觉得悲哀。

许文远说，上月参观裕廊的“圣若瑟之家”，虽然护士、护工和义工们无私为病患奉献，却仍有家属提出怪要求，搞到护士很为难。

护士长告诉部长，有个儿子就“指挥”护士，为他母亲刷牙。这个儿子要求护士在每餐后15分钟内，为他的妈妈刷牙。儿子声称爱他的母亲，认为护士这么做，才能体现疗养院以“病患为中心”的宗旨，表现爱与同情。

部长说，虽然护士长平时轻声细语，但当下却很认真地提醒这个儿子，有疗养院是上天给的一份礼物，不是一种权力。

护士长说，如果每个病患家属都这么提要求，疗养院是无法满足所有人的。

护士长也补充说，无论是疗养院的护士、职员、义工或修女，也不论他们有多仁慈、具同情心，他们都不是病患的儿子.

经护士长这么一点醒，儿子明白了，子女对父母的爱，是无法“外包”的。

野羚尚懂不弃家眷 人却不知报父母恩

许文远说，野羚尚懂得不弃家眷，人怎能不报父母养育之恩？

父母出院、子女却不愿接回家的实例，让他想起3年前，在肯亚马赛马拉国家公园观看200万只野非羚一年一度大迁徙的壮观景象。

野羚一路由坦桑尼亚的塞伦盖提国家公园，经过长达几十公里、有着大批鳄鱼滋生的水域，寻觅食水，仅身强力壮才能存活。

那天下午，许文远等一批游客被安排守候在马拉河畔，近距离看羚羊穿越河域。

鳄鱼在河水中“虎视眈眈”，强壮的羚羊过了河，弱者在河里被鳄鱼吞噬，一些老残的则留在河的南岸，不敢渡河。

这时，部长看到30只已过河的羚羊突然倒返回河对岸，选择陪伴它们的“家人”，留在岸边，面对夜晚会出没的更多猛兽。

许文远说：“这些羚羊大可跟着大部队继续迁徙，但它们却冒着生命危险倒回去，和过不了河的家人再一起过河。这就是家庭成员间维系、爱和牺牲的表达。”

 

[po2wq]

Wildebeests: Wild Beasts? Beastly?

Last week in Parliament, MP Indranee Rajah spoke about a case of abandonment of parents by one resident of hers. In our hospital, nurses have also begun to come across cases of children refusing to take back their parents after discharge. They demand that their parents be sent to a nursing home instead. It is sad to hear of such stories.

Three years ago, I spent several days in Kenya’s Masai Mara Reserve watching wild animals in their natural habitat. It was the season for the annual “long march” as 2million wildebeests, a type of antelope, migrated from the Serengeti National Park in Tanzania, in search of water and food. Along the way, many would perish as they crossed rivers infested with crocodiles or got hunted down by lions and cheetahs on the savannah plains.

One late afternoon, we were positioned near the edge of Mara River as a group of wildebeests, numbering tens of thousands, attempted a river crossing. There was much hesitation, as they could see crocodiles waiting in the river. Almost ritualistically, a leader would eventually emerge, go into the river alone, test the water and suddenly make a dash across the river. The rest would then follow in a mass stampede. I prayed for their safety, but inevitably, the weakest could not make it. Most made it and continued their journey northwards. Some, visibly old and frail, dared not even cross and were left behind on the south side of the river.

Just as we gathered our cameras and videos to return to camp, we saw a small group of wildebeests, numbering about 30, which had already made a successful crossing, yet surprisingly backtracked. They re-crossed the river to re-join presumably their family members which had failed to make the crossing. Instead of moving on with the rest of the pack, they risked their lives in order to be with their family members. It was very moving and very touching; it was an instinctive expression of family bonds, love and sacrifice.

I prayed for them even more deeply, as the night would bring more dangers and they would be in a smaller group then.

These were wild beasts but their behaviour that afternoon of not abandoning their family members was not beastly at all.

 

[nickers9]

许文远博客叹：不养父母　羚羊不如


鳄鱼在河水中“虎视眈眈”，强壮的羚羊过了河，弱者在河里被鳄鱼吞噬，一些老残的则留在河的南岸，不敢渡河。

这时，部长看到30只已过河的羚羊突然倒返回河对岸，选择陪伴它们的“家人”，留在岸边，面对夜晚会出没的更多猛兽。

许文远说：“这些羚羊大可跟着大部队继续迁徙，但它们却冒着生命危险倒回去，和过不了河的家人再一起过河。这就是家庭成员间维系、爱和牺牲的表达。”

Firstly I want to tell all the PAP gangsters, stopped all your crocodile tears and rubbish coming out from your mouths and eyes.

If you LKY and PAP gangsters are really concerned about your fellow Singaporeans, stop increasing GST and stop the inflow of foreign talents or immigrants in Singapore. They not only never helped in productivity, the foreigners suppressed Singaporeans salaries and making us very hard to survived in Singapore. We Singaporeans are facing rising HDB prices and everything but we Singaporeans salaries are not increased at all. Dont tell me your shit that Government sectors salaries are increased, the private sectors are squeezing the Singaporeans salaries till we cannot breathe at all.

The foreign talents or foreigners just know how to take advantage of Singapore situations. They can worked cheap and after that they will go back to their country and become a businessmen or a boss in opening a small business or something. But not us Singaporeans, we live and die here, we have CPF deduction, dont tell me the CPF is our money, yes I know but when can we take out our money? 55, 60, or 65 years old? And we cant take everything out, just a miserable 50% of it. The foreigners no CPF no nothing, and they can afford to have a low salaries, but not us Singaporeans. For a Singaporeans, if you paid that SGD$800 or SGD $1100, it is very hard for us to survived. But for the foreigners, SGD$800 to them is no problem but not us. Try and asked LKY or Goh Chok Tong to take SGD$800 and see can they survived in Singapore or not???

And tell the health minister not to increase the medical bills, subsidice for us Singaporeans, cause the medical bills is killing all low and middle income families as the bills is too high for us to pay if our old parents are sick and hospitalized.

So before you LKY and PAP gangsters wants to tell us about moral values and piety filial, helped the local Singaporeans first before we can help ourselves and not talking cock and bullshit stories that we are worse then the animals african goats.

If we Singaporeans are worse than the animals, then you LKY and PAP gangsters are the worst of the worst, you all are the devils blood suckers vampires mafias gangsters and rapist of all times in Singapore.

 

[Ramseth]

告诉许文元，心有意而力不足，甚至子欲养而亲不在。为何亲不在？没钱还医药费，可以死不可病。为何没钱还医药费？叫他去问黄永恒，多少新加坡人失业被裁。许文元本身永久居民在新加坡落脚起步。当今位公民与部长，叫他不要把永久居民与外国人算进账。永久居民与外国人的父母在外国，他们事业也可回外国。


再告诉许文元，当政者，自领高薪而不顾民生，才为羚羊不如也，连豺狼也不如。高薪何来？还不是民脂民膏。

 

[R4g3]

then how about throwing them to JB? what kind of beast is that? what kind of beast will make that kind of suggestions?

 

[Ramseth]

告诉许文元，心有意而力不足，甚至子欲养而亲不在。为何亲不在？没钱还医药费，可以死不可病。为何没钱还医药费？叫他去问黄永恒，多少新加坡人失业被裁。许文元本身永久居民在新加坡落脚起步。当今位公民与部长，叫他不要把永久居民与外国人算进账。永久居民与外国人的父母在外国，他们事业也可回外国。


再告诉许文元，当政者，自领高薪而不顾民生，才为羚羊不如也，连豺狼也不如。高薪何来？还不是民脂民膏。

告诉他！

 

[po2wq]

... These were wild beasts but their behaviour that afternoon of not abandoning their family members was not beastly at all.

got tis burger ...

ownself collect million $ salary evry yr ... raise prices until u cant afford 4 ur parents ... tel u got no moni send ur parents 2 jb ... now tel u, "不养父母　羚羊不如" ...

make life difficult 4 u ... evrytime tok abt himself until he's damn nice lidat ... n tel u wind-cooling words ...

wat kind of animal is dat? ...

 

[nickers9]

告诉许文元，心有意而力不足，甚至子欲养而亲不在。为何亲不在？没钱还医药费，可以死不可病。为何没钱还医药费？叫他去问黄永恒，多少新加坡人失业被裁。许文元本身永久居民在新加坡落脚起步。当今位公民与部长，叫他不要把永久居民与外国人算进账。永久居民与外国人的父母在外国，他们事业也可回外国。


再告诉许文元，当政者，自领高薪而不顾民生，才为羚羊不如也，连豺狼也不如。高薪何来？还不是民脂民膏。

very good!!!

totally agreed!!!

 

[khunking]

立法盡孝﹐天理何在。

许文远博客叹：不养父母　羚羊不如