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Updates are added at the bottom.
To anyone who is here due to the slander post made by the fake account named Bear Small, this is for you. After reading this, I hope you are able to see the truth and report the post on my behalf as Facebook has yet detected it as a post that violates privacy (my address is included in the post). The initial sharing of the post at Singapore incidents have been taken down after emailing them but she has continued to add my friends and shared it on other groups and pages.
I am only going to post this and the rest can be handled by the authorities if needed. The relevant photos will be attached.
First off, a police report has been made against her for slander and privacy violation.
The person in question is named Pham Hong Trang, 32 years old. She is a Vietnamese "working" in Singapore, and yes we met at the KTV.
Accusation point 1 (marriage scam):
We were dating and I brought her back to my house for cny dinner (2022). The day after, she told me to meet up for dinner and said that she is pregnant. The child definitely not mine as we did not have any intercourse. She claims that she was raped while at work. Our initial plan was to date for 2 years but due to the child, we decided to hasten to marriage process.
TLDR: I did not scam her into marriage, she was carrying another man's child and I agreed to hasten to marriage plans (probably should have seen the red flag right about now)
Accusation point 2 (scamming for accomodation):
She requested for a change of accomodation, which I took slightly more than a month juggling work and going for viewing. In total we stayed about 2 months at the condo we rented.
Out of the two months, I stayed less than a month and she had a friend coming over to stay at the house which I willingly agreed because she claims that her friend was chased out by her own ex husband. (Another red flag which I should have heeded)
She claims that she paid for the rent and I did not.
I personally paid the deposit of 6.8k and one month rent of 3.4k. she paid for a month rent.
TLDR: she claims I did not pay for rent but I was the one to put down 6.8k deposit along with a month rent while she paid 1 month rent. I stayed less than a month and she was staying there with her friend for two months.
Accusation point 3 (scamming her money):
I did not take a single cent from what she earned. The OCBC card was applied for her so she could have her own card to use for transport for online payments. She did deposit her earnings inside for a week but stopped. Later on, she requested to withdraw all the money which I did for her. Subsequently, any money inside the card was deposited by me with my own money for her expenses and transport which she used to shop instead. Also, everything from daily expenses to utilities and even gynae was solely paid by me.
Money is most probably the reason she is doing all these. While we were dating, she has shared with me that there were people accusung her of cheating their dad's money, I defended her throughout but admittedly I was too dumb to see the truth.
TLDR: She withdrew all the money but claims that I have took her money. In fact she has been spending my money.
Accusation point 4 (impersonating a police officer):
I worked as a forensic officer and quit my job on 30th June for other jobs to pay off the debt that she has left me with.
Relevant points to note:
After about a week of staying at the rented house, she was pretty much ignoring me while I was staying there. And yes, I actually did apply for marriage, our solemnisation date was in April. I thought her character change was due to pregnancy and stress from family financial problems so I endured the way she treated me and only ranted to my friends for comfort. It was mentally and emotionally draining.
As the solemnisation date drew near, we were still in the same state and I asked if she still wanted the marriage and her only reply was "just do what you want to do", it was never a yes or no. I was serious about the marriage so I didn't want to give up. At this point, we were already planning to transfer the lease of the house, I wanted to forgo 1 month deposit and approach the agent (at least I still get one month deposit back) but she suggested the she could find new tenants and we agreed she could have the one month deposit.
Good news is we did find new tenants. But it is also around this point that things got really ugly. I have already moved out way before so I contacted her through phone to ask her and her friend to move out she she refused until I passed her the deposit. I told her that the documents have to be signed and the house has to be back to the original state before I could do that. She started accusing me of cheating her money although I promised.
Closing in to the last date of our rental, I demanded that she and her friend to move out in a few days or I will call the police, of course it was an ugly situation. I waited a few days and went over to the house with my friends.
What we found was the lights and all the water was kept running, fish sauce was poured all over the house including beds and sofa. Bottles of coke opened and left on the floor till it became goo. Damage to the sink and other appliances. Tell me honestly, at this point, who would still give her the deposit, and I had to pay for cleaning of the house and repairs. being 32 years old, she also hide the keys and remotes controllers at random corners of the house.
Till this date, she is still convinced that I owe her the deposit. And recently she added the part where I scammed her money.
I have said my part, I hope you guys see the truth to this matter including the photo evidence that I will be providing in this post. Help me report the Bear Small account and the post for privacy violation that concerns my family welfare and safety.
Update:
I was suspended from Facebook on 14 July and recovered on 15 July after appeal. While I was suspended, 3 fake profiles impersonating me in Vietnamese were found. (That's just what I found, might be more). I have attached photos of those profiles.
Also, there's some weird request for editing baby photos, a very adamant request at that too. I have attached the screenshots as well.
Slanders, harassment, impersonation, just lies through and through from that woman and whoever is in her social circle. I don't know what she will do next, but I am very much done with that deranged woman.
Updates are added at the bottom.
To anyone who is here due to the slander post made by the fake account named Bear Small, this is for you. After reading this, I hope you are able to see the truth and report the post on my behalf as Facebook has yet detected it as a post that violates privacy (my address is included in the post). The initial sharing of the post at Singapore incidents have been taken down after emailing them but she has continued to add my friends and shared it on other groups and pages.
I am only going to post this and the rest can be handled by the authorities if needed. The relevant photos will be attached.
First off, a police report has been made against her for slander and privacy violation.
The person in question is named Pham Hong Trang, 32 years old. She is a Vietnamese "working" in Singapore, and yes we met at the KTV.
Accusation point 1 (marriage scam):
We were dating and I brought her back to my house for cny dinner (2022). The day after, she told me to meet up for dinner and said that she is pregnant. The child definitely not mine as we did not have any intercourse. She claims that she was raped while at work. Our initial plan was to date for 2 years but due to the child, we decided to hasten to marriage process.
TLDR: I did not scam her into marriage, she was carrying another man's child and I agreed to hasten to marriage plans (probably should have seen the red flag right about now)
Accusation point 2 (scamming for accomodation):
She requested for a change of accomodation, which I took slightly more than a month juggling work and going for viewing. In total we stayed about 2 months at the condo we rented.
Out of the two months, I stayed less than a month and she had a friend coming over to stay at the house which I willingly agreed because she claims that her friend was chased out by her own ex husband. (Another red flag which I should have heeded)
She claims that she paid for the rent and I did not.
I personally paid the deposit of 6.8k and one month rent of 3.4k. she paid for a month rent.
TLDR: she claims I did not pay for rent but I was the one to put down 6.8k deposit along with a month rent while she paid 1 month rent. I stayed less than a month and she was staying there with her friend for two months.
Accusation point 3 (scamming her money):
I did not take a single cent from what she earned. The OCBC card was applied for her so she could have her own card to use for transport for online payments. She did deposit her earnings inside for a week but stopped. Later on, she requested to withdraw all the money which I did for her. Subsequently, any money inside the card was deposited by me with my own money for her expenses and transport which she used to shop instead. Also, everything from daily expenses to utilities and even gynae was solely paid by me.
Money is most probably the reason she is doing all these. While we were dating, she has shared with me that there were people accusung her of cheating their dad's money, I defended her throughout but admittedly I was too dumb to see the truth.
TLDR: She withdrew all the money but claims that I have took her money. In fact she has been spending my money.
Accusation point 4 (impersonating a police officer):
I worked as a forensic officer and quit my job on 30th June for other jobs to pay off the debt that she has left me with.
Relevant points to note:
After about a week of staying at the rented house, she was pretty much ignoring me while I was staying there. And yes, I actually did apply for marriage, our solemnisation date was in April. I thought her character change was due to pregnancy and stress from family financial problems so I endured the way she treated me and only ranted to my friends for comfort. It was mentally and emotionally draining.
As the solemnisation date drew near, we were still in the same state and I asked if she still wanted the marriage and her only reply was "just do what you want to do", it was never a yes or no. I was serious about the marriage so I didn't want to give up. At this point, we were already planning to transfer the lease of the house, I wanted to forgo 1 month deposit and approach the agent (at least I still get one month deposit back) but she suggested the she could find new tenants and we agreed she could have the one month deposit.
Good news is we did find new tenants. But it is also around this point that things got really ugly. I have already moved out way before so I contacted her through phone to ask her and her friend to move out she she refused until I passed her the deposit. I told her that the documents have to be signed and the house has to be back to the original state before I could do that. She started accusing me of cheating her money although I promised.
Closing in to the last date of our rental, I demanded that she and her friend to move out in a few days or I will call the police, of course it was an ugly situation. I waited a few days and went over to the house with my friends.
What we found was the lights and all the water was kept running, fish sauce was poured all over the house including beds and sofa. Bottles of coke opened and left on the floor till it became goo. Damage to the sink and other appliances. Tell me honestly, at this point, who would still give her the deposit, and I had to pay for cleaning of the house and repairs. being 32 years old, she also hide the keys and remotes controllers at random corners of the house.
Till this date, she is still convinced that I owe her the deposit. And recently she added the part where I scammed her money.
I have said my part, I hope you guys see the truth to this matter including the photo evidence that I will be providing in this post. Help me report the Bear Small account and the post for privacy violation that concerns my family welfare and safety.
Update:
I was suspended from Facebook on 14 July and recovered on 15 July after appeal. While I was suspended, 3 fake profiles impersonating me in Vietnamese were found. (That's just what I found, might be more). I have attached photos of those profiles.
Also, there's some weird request for editing baby photos, a very adamant request at that too. I have attached the screenshots as well.
Slanders, harassment, impersonation, just lies through and through from that woman and whoever is in her social circle. I don't know what she will do next, but I am very much done with that deranged woman.
