[Singapore] - 31 year-old M'sian Jenzen Chow was served divorce papers as he could not return to JB daily to see his wife and 3 kids Thread startertr

[UltimaOnline]

For sommelier Jenzen Chow, 31, the lockdown was the killing blow to his nine-year marriage. Chow, a Malaysian, used to cross the border into Singapore every day to work as a restaurant operator, returning in the evening to his now ex-wife and three kids in Johor.

The pandemic forced him into a food and beverage job that paid less and required that he be in Singapore. The financial strain, coupled with the distance, was too much for her to bear, he told Insider.

"It was the final straw for her," he said.

Chow managed to relocate his family to Singapore earlier this year, but it was too late for the couple. In August, his wife served him divorce papers.

The pair, who met 12 years ago working hourly-wage jobs at a restaurant in Singapore, now live separately while their divorce proceedings continue. Chow sees his kids — two boys, aged 9 and 5, and a two-year-old girl — twice a week on his off-days.

He can't remember the last time he and his wife had a pleasant conversation; every time they speak, he said, it escalates into yelling.

"She was my first love. My first girlfriend. My first wife. I still love her. I look at her picture every day," said Chow, unlocking his phone to show the wallpaper of his ex-wife.

"But now she doesn't want anything to do with me. What can I do?"

https://www.insider.com/meet-the-co...sian-singaporean-border-unable-to-meet-2021-9


https://forums.fuckwarezone.com.sg/...-jb-daily-to-see-his-wife-and-3-kids.6611548/

 

[borom]

Now you know or probably already know why so many locals marry Thai or Viet wives-marry a local/malaysian/Indonesian chinese and find out for yourself.
The Women's Charter has a lot to do with it too, so read it before you decide to commit to a life of ............

 

[LordElrond]

Looking at the fat fuck… isn’t it a blessing to be able to get away?

 

[laksaboy]

The wife was getting fucked by someone else in JB.

I bet some of the money remitted home became the boyfriend's allowance money. 够厉害的哦！

 

[laksaboy]

Now you know or probably already know why so many locals marry Thai or Viet wives-marry a local/malaysian/Indonesian chinese and find out for yourself.
The Women's Charter has a lot to do with it too, so read it before you decide to commit to a life of ............

Unfortunately, those imported lasses, should they become converted Sinkies, are also contaminated psychologically.

You cannot escape the Women's Charter. Its legal tentacles have even reached massage shops.

 

[LordElrond]

The wife was getting fucked by someone else in JB.

I bet some of the money remitted home became the boyfriend's allowance money. 够厉害的哦！

It can only be some Bangla…

 

[millim6868]

CB, screw him ,blaming cannot cross border is the issues, CB the main problem is this jiuhukia bought properties which he cannot pay up n due covid times cannot rent out,these are the main reason , banka keep calling for payment,wife tulan divorce, not because cannot cross border to go back,CB ,the reporter must be from same kampong trying to get sympathy from readers,CB resign n go back to jb so u will not divorce,nobody stopping him,or u want crowd funding to help u pay off loans n debts.One jiuhukia can hv 3 to 4 properties in jb,hope sinkies Don be dumb,this is greed

 

[millim6868]

Look at the photo background, their house so big , ask sinkie to compare to their pigeons hole,ask them CB go back Don cow peh to reporters,CB kua

 

[JohnTan]

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For sommelier Jenzen Chow, 31, the lockdown was the killing blow to his nine-year marriage. Chow, a Malaysian, used to cross the border into Singapore every day to work as a restaurant operator, returning in the evening to his now ex-wife and three kids in Johor.

The pandemic forced him into a food and beverage job that paid less and required that he be in Singapore. The financial strain, coupled with the distance, was too much for her to bear, he told Insider.

"It was the final straw for her," he said.

Chow managed to relocate his family to Singapore earlier this year, but it was too late for the couple. In August, his wife served him divorce papers.

The pair, who met 12 years ago working hourly-wage jobs at a restaurant in Singapore, now live separately while their divorce proceedings continue. Chow sees his kids — two boys, aged 9 and 5, and a two-year-old girl — twice a week on his off-days.

He can't remember the last time he and his wife had a pleasant conversation; every time they speak, he said, it escalates into yelling.

"She was my first love. My first girlfriend. My first wife. I still love her. I look at her picture every day," said Chow, unlocking his phone to show the wallpaper of his ex-wife.

"But now she doesn't want anything to do with me. What can I do?"

https://www.insider.com/meet-the-co...sian-singaporean-border-unable-to-meet-2021-9


https://forums.fuckwarezone.com.sg/...-jb-daily-to-see-his-wife-and-3-kids.6611548/

For a guy who is supposedly badly affected by the pandemic, he seems to be living very well indeed.

 

[countryman]

31yr old with 3 young kids, it's gonna be a long n tough journey ahead.. The kids will follow the mum most probably so there's very slim chance she'll be able to remarry..

 

[Rogue Trader]

This story is fishy as fuck. Why would a roly-poly mother of 3 initiate divorce if her husband's reason of absenteeism is covid? He's away from home making a living after all.

I don't trust this jiuhu kia's version of the story .. next he's going to appeal for donations I bet

 

[countryman]

This story is fishy as fuck. Why would a roly-poly mother of 3 initiate divorce if her husband's reason of absenteeism is covid? He's away from home making a living after all.

I don't trust this jiuhu kia's version of the story .. next he's going to appeal for donations I bet

Likely this jiuhu kia got discovered by the wife of his side putting activities when he got stuck here in SG...

 

[Rogue Trader]

Likely this jiuhu kia got discovered by the wife of his side putting activities when he got stuck here in SG...

Yup my suspicion too. Alimony can let her keep her house and 3 children. Jiuhu kia will have to continue to stay and earn SGD ..

 

[eatshitndie]

both look like pigs. was there crossbreeding happening in jiuhu frequently?

 

[Balls2U]

Going by his story, the wife has little grounds to divorce him. Unreasonable behaviour is out cos not being able to cross border is beyond his control. Blame it on Corvid and govt restrictions. 3 or 4 years separation is also out as Corvid only started last year. It is also involuntary as he can't return to Jiuhu because of border closure. So, there must be something more to it which he did not disclose.

 

[STUCK_HERE]

Serves them right for being leeches to Singapore

 

[nayr69sg]

I think is a CSB lah.

Wah Sommelier!

Live in Landed house. Is that in JB? Owns car! Is that MY car?

 

[countryman]

I think is a CSB lah.

Wah Sommelier!

Live in Landed house. Is that in JB? Owns car! Is that MY car?

Looks like a VW Jetta, obviously JB car n JB landed property.

 

[Patriotmissile]

Wife is a dinosaur.

 

[tobelightlight]

Lucky I live a women-free life. Peace, quiet, problem-free and happiness.