why i am always optimistic when advising but if it's me i will be pessimistic?

[meaninglesslife]

just accompanied housemate to hospital as she has a gall bladder surgery. she was very worried and red eye. i kept consoling her it's a simple ops as the specialist had said and she will be fine after 1 hour or so as it's a simple key hole surgery... after i gave a a hug and a kiss on her cheek she went into the theatre...

then now i think i quite hypocritical because if it's me, i also scared correct....that's why i think i am always optimistic when advising others but if it's me i will be pessimistic

 

[syed putra]

If it comes, it comes.
This looks like a simple procedure but sometimes even doctors can screw things up.

 

[Byebye Penis]

Get Well Soon!

 

[meaninglesslife]

Get Well Soon!

she is fine. took leave today for her . went to market buy and boil fish soup for this woman

 

[po2wq]

u sure u got a haus mate? ...

 

[NanoSpeed]

then now i think i quite hypocritical because if it's me, i also scared correct....that's why i think i am always optimistic when advising others but if it's me i will be pessimistic

You are not hypocritical. You are just showing empathy without having experienced it yourself. In other words, you lacked the substance, and the person at the other end would not feel empowered by your advice.

You are not unlike pastors in general - they are just as ignorant as the sheep they pastor, just as weak as the sheep as they pastor. The male sheep see abalones like Superman sees kryptonite. The male pastors see chiobus will also mari kita. However, you are one notch up against the pastors. You are honest in being able to self-reflect.

 

[meaninglesslife]

u sure u got a haus mate? ...

yes i am sure. why?

 

[meaninglesslife]

actually why her gall bladder damage huh? she's so fit do HIIT type gall bladder also can punchek?

 

[meaninglesslife]

the other night wake me up in middle of night complaining stomach very painful. i asked her if it was menstruation cramp, she said no because it wasn't the time. see her pain until cannot walk properly so i used her car drive her to Mt E A&E. Doc scan her scan there and later specialist say her gall bladder and don't know what tube got stone and advise removal.

so fit also gall bladder can easily punchek???

 

[syed putra]

yes i am sure. why?

You saw the movie " Beautiful mind'?

 

[po2wq]

... and don't know what tube got stone and advise removal ...

fallopian tube? ...

 

[Byebye Penis]

she is fine. took leave today for her . went to market buy and boil fish soup for this woman

serious, she never asked u to marry her?

 

[meaninglesslife]

You saw the movie " Beautiful mind'?

No

 

[meaninglesslife]

fallopian tube? ...

I don't think so. It's some link tube to discharge bile into tummy to break down fats in food consume

 

[meaninglesslife]

serious, she never asked u to marry her?

we r housemates, not lovers.

 

[Byebye Penis]

we r housemates, not lovers.

I expect her to be unwell in the next few days. She is unlikely to smoke, unless u allow her to smoke in her bedroom. Because of that, she will have withdrawal symptoms. All the best to you!

oh, by the way, she will likely be braless when u take care of her in her room.

 

[NanoSpeed]

@gsbslut Is your housemate older than you ? By how many years ?

 

[meaninglesslife]

@gsbslut Is your housemate older than you ? By how many years ?

older by 2 years 4 months

 

[Willamshakespear]

No mortal has the ability to predict the future. In your case, although such minor surgeries are often successful, 99% most of the time, it is the 1% that most are frightened of, not just your housemate, but even yourself, of medical complications that may arise during surgery or later....thus the pessimism, of the unknown 1% chance...

Rather than to be pessimistic, to dwell upon that 1%, such would only make each other become even more fearful, in tears & hugs for comfort. It would serve no good to anyone, weakens the mind & eventually the body self healing systems.

As you are medically well, your housemate whom is in pain, seeks for comfort, assurance, guidance & critically hope from you - a close friend. And it is hope that gives birth to courage & optimism, to dwell instead on the 99% of chance.

Such is NOT false hope, as it is proven that most go thru such med assistance & survive well. Thus have courage & hope always, & to share it with rest of Humanity whom need such to go thru painful times....

 

[ginfreely]

we r housemates, not lovers.

You ahmeng clone bigcockman Cantonese ADULTERER son of self admitted DIRTY SLUT are busted telling lies again. You said you have sex with her ie you are lovers not housemates. Pui!