I always have this mortal fear for ladies who wants Romantic notion to carry on after marriage. All these are fine and dandy before marrriage.
But When they expect you to bring back the bacon and you always be romantic towards them , take care of their feeling.
One word of advice, stay and steer clear of such ladies. At most, you have your 5 daughters with you. Use it.
When your wife to be looks like some rich and very well groomed ladies, even when doing house work like what you see in Korea drama. Dress to impress in social meeting and help you with your busy schedule in your business and help you with some extra information. Then i think it is worth the while. If not forget it.