either way, you still can't make sense dear.
me not that close to you, so can spare those endearing terms.
much as me understood from what bro Vamjok had explained, plus what me had understood previously.
in essence, big bang didn't mean something exploded. would be a notion of massive expansion, which you had gladly accepted and further used to forward your understanding.
as of what drives that expansion, where did all that energy came from? that's one good question. bro Vamjok had tried his best to explain in terms of vacuum energy, maybe me could try to put in simple terms of what he meant.
there are at least two camps of view when it comes to the BBT, first camp suggests that our observable universe had always been expanding since the big bang, and that it would eventually end in the big collapse; the second camp suggests that the universe is in a state of constant expansion & contraction, very much like the ripples of the waves on a still surface of a pond. both camps accept that our universe is still expanding at this point in time.
so what causes the initial wave of expansion would be the crux of the problem. the vacuum energy in which bro Vamjok brought forth suggests that there's energy in vacuum, much as we understood Einstein's equation of E=mc2. the space between the vacuum does allow energy to build up since particles are constantly created and destroyed. where do these particles appear from, me have no clue. perhaps from another dimension, me really don't know and would like to find out.
back to the question where energy is derived to drive the expansion, it was suggested that the anti matter could meet up with matter to cross out one another, thus releasing tremendous amount of energy. clearly shown in Einstein's equation and the two bombs in Hiroshima and Nagasaki, we need to draw in relation to how anti-matter and matter could produce energy, that could help answer how the energy produced can fuel the expansion.
then the question that bro Vamjok raised is also pertinent to understanding our universe in a more scientific way. you could be asking the same question as he did: where are those remnants of anti-matter
