Why do some people bear grudges and seek revenge for ages?

[kitchen]

why?

 

[red amoeba]

There is a saying a man taking revenge 10 years is never too late.

 

[kitchen]

There is a saying a man taking revenge 10 years is never too late.

there's also a saying

恩恩相报何时了​

 

[kitchen]

is it a lose face issue and hence they do not want or seek closure?

 

[congo9]

Why not just have forgiveness. Live happily. Live for others also. Live for yourself eventually.

 

[gutpunch]

why?

cos must balance the scales (of justice)

there's also a saying

恩恩相报何时了​

wrong saying leh

 

[laksaboy]

why?

Bearing a grudge and seeking revenge are two different concepts.

Hint: watch the Godfather movie. "It's business, not personal."

 

[tobelightlight]

is it a lose face issue and hence they do not want or seek closure?

Are you referring to him?

 

[shittypore]

It just scares the shit out of him, billions at stakes for Familee.

 

[kitchen]

so must carry grudge and revenge to one's grave and beyond to achieve happiness for oneself?

 

[tobelightlight]

so must carry grudge and revenge to one's grave and beyond to achieve happiness for oneself?

At this time of earth ascension, if you wish to ascend to a higher consciousness of happiness and joy, you got to learn to forgive but it is a free will thing here. You choose your path. The way is if you forgive, you let yourself to joy and happiness, if not, you are the one who suffer it not the person you hold against. This is a lesson.

 

[kollective]

In this forum context, the "opponent" is faceless

The responses have to keep coming and be as crude as possible so as to "win"

I remember lurking in 2000s and seeing peoples irl identities exposed as the ultimate retaliation

Didnt join then as i thought this place is too one dimensioned

But everywhere else is now pilot social credit system with all the points, bans

Its just words. There are real physical issues out that need taking care of

So please, carry on. Freedom of speech.

 

[mako65]

Blood feud, usually happens to family members involving money and power!

 

[LexLuthor]

is it a lose face issue and hence they do not want or seek closure?

You are somewhere there.

It's because we identify with our ego, and in order to protect our [fragile] ego revenge [or putting another person down] is necessary.

 

[LexLuthor]

there's also a saying

恩恩相报何时了​

It's 冤冤相報。

 

[blackmondy]

Ask CCPee. They will give you the best answer.

 

[SBFNews]

why?

Because they are lao unwanted virgins?

 

[nightowl]

why?

Ask Hsien Loong and Ho Ching