Sinkie parents-wanna-be better wise up quickly.
If you are not swimming in money, or have the patience of more than a saint with angelic emotional self control, you are better off childless.
If fate rewards you a child like this what will happen to your life? Don't ever hope to depend on this PAP govt to help you out.
Nor family and friends. They will eventually abandon you to raise this child alone.
Your husband will high chance commit suicide.