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Mon, Jun 29, 2009
Diva
Three myths about the Singapore woman
by Skilldo
If you are a male and still single, you may probably have heard these myths about Singaporean women, or even more likely, you may have used them at some point in your dating career.
Myth #1: Singapore girls are harder to approach
It's highly likely the guy who believe this has probably approached less than than 10 women in his life.
Here's the fact: if you have walked up to and chatted with enough women, you will find plenty of highly responsive ones.
Sure, there are girls who have their noses in the air. If that happens to you, simply turn away and speak to another lady. There is really nothing hard about it.
Never use limited references from just a few approaches to become the overall verdict about women.
In the end, it's NOT that S'pore females are harder to talk to. Instead, it has got to do with how much a guy is preventing himself from going up to a girl to break the ice.
Myth #2: Women in Singapore have very high standards for men
I won't totally disagree with this point, but hear me out.
Women all have standards. They all have "wants".
In terms of the type of man they want, they say - "I want a guy to have this, I want a guy to have that."
But when you attract a lady enough (even if you don't fit the description of what she says she want), she will still be happy being with you.
I know women who say they want good-looking guys, but end up with common-looking ones. I also know women who say they want to get a rich guy and be a 'tai-tai' - haven't we all heard that before? - but end up with ordinary salaried males.
Of course, we also know examples of rich guys getting beautiful women, but I can tell you surely that for every "rich guy gets girl" example there is out there, I can show you two more cases of "ordinary guy gets girl".
And as a personal example of someone who's heard it before, there are women who say they will only consider tall men, but end up with partners who do not fit that bill.
Note:I happen to be living this reality. My current girlfriend made it clear that she preferred tall guys when I first met her.
Well, I'm at best average height and could have taken what she said as final. But I didn't.
If one knows what attraction is all about, he should not be bothered by what a lady says she wants.
Myth #3: All the pretty/nice ones are taken
Not true.
Maybe if you said that the hot ones are more in demand, then it's correct. But when it comes to them confirmed as being taken, then that is not the case.
As we speak, countless pretty and/or nice ladies are still holding onto their single status.
Again, this relates closely to being limited by a certain view.
People who think all the good ones are taken obviously has not socialised enough.
They observe the six gorgeous girls in their office who are all attached, and conclude that there is no one else left for them.
But if a man gets to know a lot of fine-looking women from different places, they will invariably find a large number of them who are single and 'still looking'.
Never be fenced up by what you're faced with. The entire Singapore is your girl-getting arena.
About the writer:
Skilldo is an 'ex-unhappy' Singaporean guy - who grew from being lonely,dateless and single... into breaking out of it, and obtained a fulfilling social life in meeting, dating and entering satisfying relationships with women.
He is the author of 'The Ultimate Singapore Girl-Getter'. A locally-focused guide for Singapore men to approach, date and successfully attract the type of women they want for themselves.
He maintains a website containing secrets and training for men at -
http://www.seductionsingapore.com
Mon, Jun 29, 2009
Diva
Three myths about the Singapore woman
by Skilldo
If you are a male and still single, you may probably have heard these myths about Singaporean women, or even more likely, you may have used them at some point in your dating career.
Myth #1: Singapore girls are harder to approach
It's highly likely the guy who believe this has probably approached less than than 10 women in his life.
Here's the fact: if you have walked up to and chatted with enough women, you will find plenty of highly responsive ones.
Sure, there are girls who have their noses in the air. If that happens to you, simply turn away and speak to another lady. There is really nothing hard about it.
Never use limited references from just a few approaches to become the overall verdict about women.
In the end, it's NOT that S'pore females are harder to talk to. Instead, it has got to do with how much a guy is preventing himself from going up to a girl to break the ice.
Myth #2: Women in Singapore have very high standards for men
I won't totally disagree with this point, but hear me out.
Women all have standards. They all have "wants".
In terms of the type of man they want, they say - "I want a guy to have this, I want a guy to have that."
But when you attract a lady enough (even if you don't fit the description of what she says she want), she will still be happy being with you.
I know women who say they want good-looking guys, but end up with common-looking ones. I also know women who say they want to get a rich guy and be a 'tai-tai' - haven't we all heard that before? - but end up with ordinary salaried males.
Of course, we also know examples of rich guys getting beautiful women, but I can tell you surely that for every "rich guy gets girl" example there is out there, I can show you two more cases of "ordinary guy gets girl".
And as a personal example of someone who's heard it before, there are women who say they will only consider tall men, but end up with partners who do not fit that bill.
Note:I happen to be living this reality. My current girlfriend made it clear that she preferred tall guys when I first met her.
Well, I'm at best average height and could have taken what she said as final. But I didn't.
If one knows what attraction is all about, he should not be bothered by what a lady says she wants.
Myth #3: All the pretty/nice ones are taken
Not true.
Maybe if you said that the hot ones are more in demand, then it's correct. But when it comes to them confirmed as being taken, then that is not the case.
As we speak, countless pretty and/or nice ladies are still holding onto their single status.
Again, this relates closely to being limited by a certain view.
People who think all the good ones are taken obviously has not socialised enough.
They observe the six gorgeous girls in their office who are all attached, and conclude that there is no one else left for them.
But if a man gets to know a lot of fine-looking women from different places, they will invariably find a large number of them who are single and 'still looking'.
Never be fenced up by what you're faced with. The entire Singapore is your girl-getting arena.
About the writer:
Skilldo is an 'ex-unhappy' Singaporean guy - who grew from being lonely,dateless and single... into breaking out of it, and obtained a fulfilling social life in meeting, dating and entering satisfying relationships with women.
He is the author of 'The Ultimate Singapore Girl-Getter'. A locally-focused guide for Singapore men to approach, date and successfully attract the type of women they want for themselves.
He maintains a website containing secrets and training for men at -
http://www.seductionsingapore.com
