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YOU may have heard plenty of stories about China women cheating Singapore men of their money, especially the Ah Peks or uncles. But there's also the flip side of the cheating stories, says Stomper Brad Tan. China women get conned of their money, morality, human respect and dignity by ruthless Singapore guys as well.
He chanced upon the TalkBack thread, A dumb PRC woman and a heartless SG man, in Stomp's TalkBack section. It is truly a tragic story about how the China woman lost her job, her money and everything to the heartless Singapore man -- even to the extent of undergoing an abortion.
Here's her tragic story:
"I first met this Singaporean man in February 2004 at night club where I worked when he was working in a bank as a trader.
"He became a regular customer (until today) and would wait outside my school to take me to lunch, looking for any opportunity to come to my nightclub when he had clients to entertain.
"On my birthday, he bought me a one carat diamond ring and we went to a bar at the basement of Marriott Hotel, where I got drunk and we had sex.
"After that he usually stayed at my house. I don’t know how he handled his marriage but I only know his wife wanted divorce.
"In June, he asked me to stop working at the nightclub when he quit the bank job and found another job with a higher salary.
"He promised to me he would take care me forever, even when I go back to China.
"Although he earned $7000 a month, he did not have enough money for me. In fact I earned more than him, but I chose him after he promised to me again and again that he would never touch his wife ever again.
"I got pregnant in September 2006 but he gave up the baby even though he is Christian. He explained to me that he was too busy with work and did not have enough money, so I went for an abortion three months into the pregnancy in December.
"In May 2007 he again changed his job and was transferred to Hong Kong, earning $130, 000HK each month. I gave up my studies to stay with him.
"He stayed in a service apartment when his wife was not around. I visited him every two months, and he brought me to the Disneyland.
"I found out that he enjoyed going to a nightclub in Hong Kong because all the girls could go out and have sex and be paid by the company.
"I discovered from his friend that after a few times of having fun in Dongguan, he adopted a 17-year-old girl and gave her house in Shenzhen so he could easily visit her from Hong Kong.
"He started to not allow me to visit him in HK and lied to me that he had been transferred to London when he was actually already back in Singapore.
"In July 2008, he scolded me when I found him in his office and he never felt any guilty even though I had decided to give up everything, including my youth, money, friends, studies and even my baby.
"He had no any reason to dump me without taking any responsibility for nearly five years.
"I cannot believe the man changed from the man who bought me a one carat diamond ring to one who scolded me and even wanted me to die.
"My parents were very angry when they heard he had dumped me without taking any responsibility.
"They never consented to our relationship because he had a wife but I insisted anyway.
"My mother, who was very ill, wanted to talk to him but he refused. She suddenly passed away on October 25 2008.
"In November 2008, he told me he had divorced his wife and had moved to stay with his parents and he blamed it all on me.
"Today, this man is very proud of his life because he has a high salary, and clubs every night on his company's expenses."
YOU may have heard plenty of stories about China women cheating Singapore men of their money, especially the Ah Peks or uncles. But there's also the flip side of the cheating stories, says Stomper Brad Tan. China women get conned of their money, morality, human respect and dignity by ruthless Singapore guys as well.
He chanced upon the TalkBack thread, A dumb PRC woman and a heartless SG man, in Stomp's TalkBack section. It is truly a tragic story about how the China woman lost her job, her money and everything to the heartless Singapore man -- even to the extent of undergoing an abortion.
Here's her tragic story:
"I first met this Singaporean man in February 2004 at night club where I worked when he was working in a bank as a trader.
"He became a regular customer (until today) and would wait outside my school to take me to lunch, looking for any opportunity to come to my nightclub when he had clients to entertain.
"On my birthday, he bought me a one carat diamond ring and we went to a bar at the basement of Marriott Hotel, where I got drunk and we had sex.
"After that he usually stayed at my house. I don’t know how he handled his marriage but I only know his wife wanted divorce.
"In June, he asked me to stop working at the nightclub when he quit the bank job and found another job with a higher salary.
"He promised to me he would take care me forever, even when I go back to China.
"Although he earned $7000 a month, he did not have enough money for me. In fact I earned more than him, but I chose him after he promised to me again and again that he would never touch his wife ever again.
"I got pregnant in September 2006 but he gave up the baby even though he is Christian. He explained to me that he was too busy with work and did not have enough money, so I went for an abortion three months into the pregnancy in December.
"In May 2007 he again changed his job and was transferred to Hong Kong, earning $130, 000HK each month. I gave up my studies to stay with him.
"He stayed in a service apartment when his wife was not around. I visited him every two months, and he brought me to the Disneyland.
"I found out that he enjoyed going to a nightclub in Hong Kong because all the girls could go out and have sex and be paid by the company.
"I discovered from his friend that after a few times of having fun in Dongguan, he adopted a 17-year-old girl and gave her house in Shenzhen so he could easily visit her from Hong Kong.
"He started to not allow me to visit him in HK and lied to me that he had been transferred to London when he was actually already back in Singapore.
"In July 2008, he scolded me when I found him in his office and he never felt any guilty even though I had decided to give up everything, including my youth, money, friends, studies and even my baby.
"He had no any reason to dump me without taking any responsibility for nearly five years.
"I cannot believe the man changed from the man who bought me a one carat diamond ring to one who scolded me and even wanted me to die.
"My parents were very angry when they heard he had dumped me without taking any responsibility.
"They never consented to our relationship because he had a wife but I insisted anyway.
"My mother, who was very ill, wanted to talk to him but he refused. She suddenly passed away on October 25 2008.
"In November 2008, he told me he had divorced his wife and had moved to stay with his parents and he blamed it all on me.
"Today, this man is very proud of his life because he has a high salary, and clubs every night on his company's expenses."
