That's why no need to spend too much for a wedding, photoshoot etc.
Do it the traditional Chinese 4-step way: bow to heaven, bow to parents, bow to your newlywed spouse, then immediately go to 洞房 to fuck till sunrise.
Back in the day you live one more day = you strike lottery one more day. No one cared about superfluous bullshit or 'everlasting love'. Live day by day, don't fantasize about tomorrow or 'everlasting love'.