'Sidelined' fathers face unmet emotional, sexual needs after baby arrives, study finds

[Johnrambo]

..................Issues such as the lack of emotional support and unmet sexual needs of fathers surfaced later on, researchers found.


At the six-month mark, at least one father was reported to be at risk of depression, the study found.


Fathers were also found to have unmet sexual needs, with several dads having questions about when they could start having sex with their spouses again.


TODAY spoke to several fathers who did not participate in the study. Some said they found it difficult to express their emotional needs due to societal norms which expect men to be strong.


In addition, these fathers said that they were often tasked with “back-end” duties such as buying diapers, milk powder and groceries — another common experience among dads that researchers identified in their study.

More at https://www.todayonline.com/singapo...-face-unmet-emotional-sexual-needs-after-baby

 

[laksaboy]

Marriage and parenthood is the death of your sex life. Too bad many gong kias have to learn the hard way.

 

[mojito]

Of course we want the man to stick around pay for stuffs. That keeps him useful to his twilight years.

 

[congo9]

If man can't be kept satisfied. If you are a Christian, pray to God. Tell God. He will grant you wisdom and he will automatically turn your wife into a sex machine again or turn you into a guy that sex is just secondary.

If you are a faithless person, there are so many forms of therapy around, choose one. Be happy and keep your wife happy.

 

[red amoeba]

Government should issue CHAS card for Father to be for use in Geylang. Unmet sexual needs can lead to rape, molest or incest.

 

[syed putra]

Marriage and parenthood is the death of your sex life. Too bad many gong kias have to learn the hard way.

Not if you find a partner that enjoys sex in same manner. It could be a joy. Even after birth, the sex continues until she reaches about 45-50 when her desire starts to wane.

 

[Hypocrite-The]

Marriage and parenthood is the death of your sex life. Too bad many gong kias have to learn the hard way.

Tat is why I never understood the obsession men have with getting married n having kids..kids spoil soo many marriages. I mean spoil and destroy the man's life

 

[syed putra]

Tat is why I never understood the obsession men have with getting married n having kids..kids spoil soo many marriages. I mean spoil and destroy the man's life

The whole idea of sex is to reproduce. Otherwise, stick to wanking.

 

[Hypocrite-The]

The whole idea of sex is to reproduce. Otherwise, stick to wanking.

m&ds don't have such a problem as they have 4 wives n the younger the better...n sex is for enjoyment..only loosers use it as a breeding excuse..than after baby pop out? Men stop having sex? Wat a load of crock

 

[Loofydralb]

Two words:

WOMEN'S CHARTER!

 

[Leongsam]

Marriage and parenthood is the death of your sex life. Too bad many gong kias have to learn the hard way.

No worries I am providing much needed emotional, social and psychiatric support at www.sbf.net.nz

All new fathers are most welcome to sign up in order to avoid depression.

 

[sweetiepie]

KNN the most pitiful man is those that have @ginfreely type as spouse KNN everyday enduring the 3 big holes is better to be dead and if call it off need to share your hard earned money with them KNN very very pitiful KNN

 

[Leongsam]

KNN the most pitiful man is those that have @ginfreely type as spouse KNN

That's not true Ginfreely's husband would be a very lucky man to have such a feisty and dynamic wife to share his life with.

 

[sweetiepie]

That's not true Ginfreely's husband would be a very lucky man to have such a feisty and dynamic wife to share his life with.

read the 2nd sentence KNN

everyday enduring the 3 big holes is better to be dead and if call it off need to share your hard earned money with them KNN very very pitiful KNN

 

[nightsafari]

That's not true Ginfreely's husband would be a very lucky man to have such a feisty and dynamic wife to share his life with.

i like because the above statement gave me a good laugh

 

[glockman]

Marriage and parenthood is the death of your sex life. Too bad many gong kias have to learn the hard way.

Tat is why I never understood the obsession men have with getting married n having kids..kids spoil soo many marriages. I mean spoil and destroy the man's life

Exactly. Men are meant to fuck many women, deposit their seed each time, and move on. We were not supposed to fuck one, then hang around and deal with the little fuckers we sired. That's not part of the plan!

 

[laksaboy]

Exactly. Men are meant to fuck many women, deposit their seed each time, and move on. We were not supposed to fuck one, then hang around and deal with the little fuckers we sired. That's not part of the plan!

 

[zhihau]

These new fathers had been better off if they learned tantric sex, their wives will beg for more right after the moment they popped!

 

[laksaboy]

These new fathers had been better off if they learned tantric sex, their wives will beg for more right after the moment they popped!

Do BDSM inside the bomb shelter of the new HDB flats.

 

[congo9]

m&ds don't have such a problem as they have 4 wives n the younger the better...n sex is for enjoyment..only loosers use it as a breeding excuse..than after baby pop out? Men stop having sex? Wat a load of crock

I Say again. If woman refuse to please their man,then it's time to go your own way.