Side effects of being a virgin for too long
For many individuals, virginity is an important milestone, one they regard as a badge of honour.
But, while it may be advantageous to wait until marriage to be sèxually active, there are some potential side effects of being a virgin for too long.
This paper examines the various physical and psychological effects of abstaining from physical intimacy for a significant period.
Physical Side Effects
According to Healthline, One of the most common physical side effects of being a virgin for too long is decreased sèxual arousal.
This is primarily because abstaining from sèxual activity does not allow for a buildup of sèxual anticipation or excitement, which is needed to become aroused.
Furthermore, when it comes to long-term virginity, individuals may lose out on the opportunity to learn about and become comfortable with their sèxual anatomy.
For example, clitoral stimulation conducted during màsturbation or with a partner is often needed to reach orgàsm for women. Without such stimulation or knowledge about it, arousal may be difficult to achieve.
Long-term virginity can also lead to a decrease in vàginal lubrication which might make intercourse more painful.
Intercourse is typically much more comfortable and enjoyable when there is adequate lubrication, so a decrease in this might result in increased discomfort during sèxual activity.
Psychological Side Effects
The psychological effects of virginity can range from mild embarrassment to deep-seated insecurity. For example, it is not uncommon for individuals who are virgins to feel uncomfortable discussing their sèxual history with potential partners or even friends.
They may also judge themselves harshly for not having any sèxual experience, feeling out of the loop or ashamed when they hear others talk about their sèxual history.
There is often an underlying fear that they are missing out on something and not living up to society’s standards.
Additionally, long-term virginity may lead to a heightened level of anxiety about sèxual performance.
This is because there is often a lack of knowledge about how to please a partner due to the absence of sèxual experience.
As a result, worry about whether one will be able to satisfactorily please their partner during intercourse or other sèxual activities is a real concern for some individuals in this situation.
Finally, the side effects of long-term virginity may be compounded by the fact that those who have abstained from sèxual activity for a long period might have an unrealistic ideal of what sèxual intercourse is like and what it should be. This can be demoralizing when they discover that it is not always as perfect or special as they had imagined it to be.
Conclusion
In conclusion, virginity is a personal decision that should be respected and honoured. However, it is important to understand that there can be some side effects of abstaining from physical intimacy for a long period.
The physical effects include decreased sèxual arousal and a decrease in vàginal lubrication, which can make intercourse more painful.
The psychological effects can range from mild embarrassment to deep-seated insecurity and fear of not being able to please a partner.
While there are potential risks, virginity is an individual choice and if one decides to wait to be sèxually active it is important to ensure that they are comfortable with their decision and the potential effects it may have.
