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I (F43) want to leave husband (M39) as he sleeps for days
My husband (M,39yo) has been sleeping since Wednesday morning (around 4am) until now Sunday, 1PM. He sleeps for 4-5 days straight without doing anything now.
Yes, he sleeps during working hours and only awake maybe once or twice to go to the toilet and eat then back sleeping again.
However for the entire weekend, Saturday and Sunday… he sleeps the entire day and get so irritated and angry when when try to wake him up. He only eat once and pee once since Saturday and Sunday.
He told me he couldn’t sleep because of he is in pain from high blood pressures and pinched nerve. But I called that BS because he can’t manage his time.
He doesn’t sleep for 2-3 nights straight doing his hobby, then he sleeps for days afterwards.
As usual, both myself (F, 43yo) and my daughter (8yo) are left to do our own activities and feel so left out. I feel like a single mom and I can’t even communicate at all.
Feels completely disconnected and I grow a lot of hates towards him. I’m also very embarrassed with him, very disheartened and so depressed dealing with this situation.
Our bills are behind, our credits are all maxed up and he’s just sleeping all the time or busy doing his own things which cause a lot of mess.
I really want to leave and go but I have no money. All my salaries and side hustle goes to this family and he manages the finances now.
We’ve been together for 10 years now. In the beginning he was all kind and fun, but now things have been really challenging between us.
We can’t even talk or communicate without having arguments. I feel absolutely disconnected and so sick to have to talk to him and being treated like a door mat.
Is it too late for me to leave him and take my daughter with me?
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Is it too late for me to leave him and take my daughter with me?
