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Powerful "Little Emperors" - Kids of the spoilt generation

GoFlyKiteNow

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Spoilt generation's classless 'little emperors' hold all power

By Fiona Macrae and Paul Sims, Daily Mail
Published: September 14, 2009, 23:04

London: A growing lack of adult authority has bred a "spoilt generation" of children who believe grown-ups must earn their respect, a leading psychologist has warned.

The rise of the "little emperor" spans the class divide and is fuelling ills from childhood obesity to teenage pregnancy, Dr Aric Sigman's research shows.

Attempts to "empower" children and a lack of discipline have also fostered rising levels of violence, at home, at school and in the street.

Sigman, a fellow of the Royal Society of Medicine, said nursery-age children are becoming increasingly violent and disrespectful towards teachers, "parent battering" is on the rise and the number of policemen attacked by children is soaring.

Sigman said: "Children of the spoilt generation are used to having their demands met by their parents and others in authority, and that in turn makes them unprepared for the realities of adult life.

"This has consequences in every area of society, from the classroom to the workplace, the streets to the criminal courts and rehabilitation clinics. Being spoilt is now classless, children are now spoilt in ways that go far beyond materialism.

"This is partly the result of an inability to distinguish between being authoritative versus authoritarian, leaving concepts such as authority and boundaries blurred.

"And the consequences are measurable - Britain now has the highest rates of child depression, child-on-child murder, underage pregnancy, obesity, violent and antisocial behaviour and pre-teen alcoholism since records began."

For his report, The Spoilt Generation, he drew on 150 studies and reports, including official figures on crime and data on parenting strategies.

Taken together, they showed many of the problems blighting "broken Britain" are linked to lack of discipline.

This is being exacerbated by misguided attempts to give children more control over their lives.

Calling for "commonsense policies" to put children in their place, Sigman said: "There should be an absolute presumption both in law and in policy that adults 'know better' and are in the right unless there are exceptional reasons."
 

annexa

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Tell me about the babby boomer generation who asked for change when they needed jobs, pushed out the old managers. Then now asking for job protection when they are old so that the young cannot move up in their career.
 

limpeh2

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Babyboomer generation, the most privileged, greedy and vain generation of fuckers who had free 'love' (sex), LSD experimentations, cheap houses, free education & tons of pharmaceuticals to extend their fucking useless general & sex lives.
 

Goh Meng Seng

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I have known of one real life story.

A bodyguard as well as a driver of the son of an influential family was driving the teenager to school. The playful son puts his hands over the driver cum bodyguard's eyes while he was driving.

The bodyguard has no choice but to turn around and gave that spoilt brat a good scolding. That boy cried for he has never been scolded before by anybody because he is the "Little Emperor" in town.

The next thing you know is that instead of giving that boy a good lecture on the danger of playing such stupid dangerous tricks, the bodyguard was sacked by the parents.

They are deprived of a good education on what is right and wrong mainly due to bad parenthood.

Goh Meng Seng



Spoilt generation's classless 'little emperors' hold all power

By Fiona Macrae and Paul Sims, Daily Mail
Published: September 14, 2009, 23:04

London: A growing lack of adult authority has bred a "spoilt generation" of children who believe grown-ups must earn their respect, a leading psychologist has warned.

The rise of the "little emperor" spans the class divide and is fuelling ills from childhood obesity to teenage pregnancy, Dr Aric Sigman's research shows.

Attempts to "empower" children and a lack of discipline have also fostered rising levels of violence, at home, at school and in the street.

Sigman, a fellow of the Royal Society of Medicine, said nursery-age children are becoming increasingly violent and disrespectful towards teachers, "parent battering" is on the rise and the number of policemen attacked by children is soaring.

Sigman said: "Children of the spoilt generation are used to having their demands met by their parents and others in authority, and that in turn makes them unprepared for the realities of adult life.

"This has consequences in every area of society, from the classroom to the workplace, the streets to the criminal courts and rehabilitation clinics. Being spoilt is now classless, children are now spoilt in ways that go far beyond materialism.

"This is partly the result of an inability to distinguish between being authoritative versus authoritarian, leaving concepts such as authority and boundaries blurred.

"And the consequences are measurable - Britain now has the highest rates of child depression, child-on-child murder, underage pregnancy, obesity, violent and antisocial behaviour and pre-teen alcoholism since records began."

For his report, The Spoilt Generation, he drew on 150 studies and reports, including official figures on crime and data on parenting strategies.

Taken together, they showed many of the problems blighting "broken Britain" are linked to lack of discipline.

This is being exacerbated by misguided attempts to give children more control over their lives.

Calling for "commonsense policies" to put children in their place, Sigman said: "There should be an absolute presumption both in law and in policy that adults 'know better' and are in the right unless there are exceptional reasons."
 

SotongMee

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This kind of kid shit brat is not worth blocking the incoming bullets or a flying dagger or the attacker's meat cleaver for whatever the money's worth.

The brat would probably end up killing himself and others anyway.

I have known of one real life story.

A bodyguard as well as a driver of the son of an influential family was driving the teenager to school. The playful son puts his hands over the driver cum bodyguard's eyes while he was driving.

The bodyguard has no choice but to turn around and gave that spoilt brat a good scolding. That boy cried for he has never been scolded before by anybody because he is the "Little Emperor" in town.

The next thing you know is that instead of giving that boy a good lecture on the danger of playing such stupid dangerous tricks, the bodyguard was sacked by the parents.

They are deprived of a good education on what is right and wrong mainly due to bad parenthood.

Goh Meng Seng
 

TeeKee

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They are deprived of a good education on what is right and wrong mainly due to bad parenthood.

Goh Meng Seng

This one I completely agree....there's a similar saying in the bible...look at the trees if you want to know how the children will turn out...

Matthew 7:18 (New International Version)

18A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit.
 

Goh Meng Seng

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Generous Asset
This kind of kid shit brat is not worth blocking the incoming bullets or a flying dagger or the attacker's meat cleaver for whatever the money's worth.

The brat would probably end up killing himself and others anyway.

From the Chinese Confucius perspective, it is the father's fault. "子不养,父之过"。 Meaning, if the son is brought up badly, it is the fault of the father.

True to a certain extend. Nobody is born as spoilt brat. They are being spoilt by the parents or basically, neglected by the parents.

Goh Meng Seng
 
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