Straits Times Review Insight
Friday, February 10 2010
Page A17
Fifth column, 12th -16th paragraph
Dr Lim's wife Beatrice Chen, who is a nephrologist or kidney specialist, helps to treat her husband. She declines to be interviewed as she shuns publicity.
They met in 1958 when they were working together at the Singapore General Hospital, and married in 1961.
Dr Lim was detained two years later. For the next 15 years, they each other for half an hour each week, separated by a glass panel, and spoke by telephone.
"The fact that we can see each other is a relief," he says. "Our common struggle was a unifying force. We understood each other. She kept on encouraging me, giving me moral support....it was very hard for her. She's a great woman."
The couple have one son, who is now working in the National University of Singapore. "He was five months old when I was arrested. When I came out, my wife was in menopause. I missed the joy of bringing up my own son."