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Joined: 06 May 2009
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</TD><TD class=row1 height=28 vAlign=top width="100%"><TABLE border=0 cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width="100%"><TBODY><TR><TD width="100%">Posted: Thu Apr 08, 2010 10:43 pm Post subject: my husband working closely with this woman</TD><TD vAlign=top noWrap> </TD></TR><TR><TD colSpan=2><HR></TD></TR><TR><TD colSpan=2>guys..
i dunno what to do . seeking for some advice.
my hubby work quite closely w a female colleague. I know most of his female colleagues, but i dunno wwhy somehow just dont like this particular gal right from the start, even b4 they started to work together.
Now sometimes after work, she will sms him. When i take leave with my hubby, he will even sms her things like what show we are watching. i think all these smses are unnecessary. i told him to stay away from her since i dont like her. but he say they are just friends, he cant stay away as they work together, and why cant he have hisown friends. I cant answer that. i knw its hard for him to stay away from her and its unreasonable for me to demand that. but i just have this uneasy feeling
and bottomline is i dont like her even before all these happen coz i dont like her character.
Her sms even got nick names for him. nothing loveydovey but still nicknames for him and herself. i hate it.
If i just do nothing and let it be, i got this uneasy feeling that the stupid gal will keep pestering him and he will get closer to her
but if i ask him to stop, i might end up sounding like a overly possessive wife. afterall there isnt any loveydovey sms going on or anything that cross the line yet. but somehow, its just the 6th sense that something might not be right next time
sigh. i also dunno what advice i am asking for. coz i already know i should do, which is dont do anything now coz it will be unreasonable for me to do anything
i feel v sad. cant do anything and yet see liao not happy
sigh. i dunno why i'm posting this. just take it that i'm telling u a bedtime story
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<TABLE class=forumline border=0 cellSpacing=1 cellPadding=3 width="100%"><TBODY><TR><TD class=row1 vAlign=top width=150 align=left>veryblur
Joined: 06 May 2009
Posts: 111
</TD><TD class=row1 height=28 vAlign=top width="100%"><TABLE border=0 cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width="100%"><TBODY><TR><TD width="100%">Posted: Thu Apr 08, 2010 10:43 pm Post subject: my husband working closely with this woman</TD><TD vAlign=top noWrap> </TD></TR><TR><TD colSpan=2><HR></TD></TR><TR><TD colSpan=2>guys..
i dunno what to do . seeking for some advice.
my hubby work quite closely w a female colleague. I know most of his female colleagues, but i dunno wwhy somehow just dont like this particular gal right from the start, even b4 they started to work together.
Now sometimes after work, she will sms him. When i take leave with my hubby, he will even sms her things like what show we are watching. i think all these smses are unnecessary. i told him to stay away from her since i dont like her. but he say they are just friends, he cant stay away as they work together, and why cant he have hisown friends. I cant answer that. i knw its hard for him to stay away from her and its unreasonable for me to demand that. but i just have this uneasy feeling
Her sms even got nick names for him. nothing loveydovey but still nicknames for him and herself. i hate it.
If i just do nothing and let it be, i got this uneasy feeling that the stupid gal will keep pestering him and he will get closer to her
but if i ask him to stop, i might end up sounding like a overly possessive wife. afterall there isnt any loveydovey sms going on or anything that cross the line yet. but somehow, its just the 6th sense that something might not be right next time
sigh. i also dunno what advice i am asking for. coz i already know i should do, which is dont do anything now coz it will be unreasonable for me to do anything