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** please ignore the structure as it is a draft and i will improvise further later
Since there were some posts that While there were a few posts going around about Foreigner contribution to Singapore,
i will share my story here. Here is what my story is.. What i have contributed to Singapore or USA or India where i have lived and worked only the All Mighty would know.
A brief about my background
#Was likely among the top 5 percent in my batch for academics for likely most of my seco9ndary school, high school and masters
#Was likely among top 5 percent of the people i knew about my age in terms of personal value systems, behaviour patterns and other ethics, though may have been a great in speech and drama
#A very High IQ which still likely is
#A healthy body and physique due to Aries star sign
#A good decent appealing looks though not a superstar looks
**Came in Singapore in the year 2002 headhunted by a recruiter to work for Microsoft my dream company for a 3-month contract work. Readily accepted it. I held a bachelors, a master's and a MCSD at that time which was a good degree and great qualification.
** I was 24 then, with a lot of hope, dream, passion, enthusiasm, Love for life and everyone around me.
**Ready to spend my youth in Singapore with huge dreams of earning in dollars and returning back after a decade or 2 with huge stash of money to be able to own a landed property
**2005 received a USA H!B and travelled to work , while at the same time i also got applied for residency and got it
**2005 Went to USA and in 3 months bought a used Car, Acura Integra for less than 5K USD and enjoyed it there.
**2005 Found the USA too cold and had some very scary experiences in the USA while i worked there on an H1B,
**when i was sick a specialist appointment was taking me 2 weeks and costing 180- USD , a GP was costing 80 USD plus. i remembered India or Singapore where i could then visit a GP just in a few meters away.
** For those who think USA is very rosy, it is a beautiful country and i loved the weather and my office supervisor was excellent there. But over there i was stalked and a few Indian people whom i knew were rarely mature enough to handle situations properly, based on my skills and knowledge i would honestly grade me -vs them as 7-4.
**2006 my neighbour from India who was a Indian CECA having a firm in USA and inspire did not help me get an H1B, but tricked and sweet talked my family by scaring them and helped me return to India, in return that guy got a US citizenship ;-)) post not sure if it was a coincidence
** had to sell off my dream mini used Integra off as i was returning.
*** 2007 bought another dream care Suzuki Swift which was a good and recognised car in India then
**2007 -2009 returned to Singapore to work and slog on contractual Technology roles in various finance companies
**2010 Felt lonely so sort of started looking online at marriage portals as during work there were no avenues otherwise to meet or date thinking a Singapore experience would add weight to me. Did not get right match due to various selection criteria i had kept for myself then.
** 2010 Family arranged some proposals and got married based on customs, at the same time i was asked to leave work due to a petty salary discussion over chat, o took over another job via reference and lived in Singapore continuing to work on contractual world.
** All this while Still hoping to settle down own a car in Singapore which was a dream for everyone considering cars were o expensive
**2013 Got a beautiful child which i was thankful for
**2013 Bought my first HDB dream house, after many thoughts if we should buy in Nusajaya or in Singapore. A 5I apartment beautiful and just as per expectation for a price more than double for that of Nusajaya Horizon Hills then. This was as i thought i would keep it for my daughter as she would grow up and do her studies there...
Though in my view i think i that decision was a changing point in my life. Had i purchased a Horizon hills house may be things would have been different
*2017-2019 Gave the house back to the bank by making a 100k loss.
2024- living a life half dead with most emotions broken. Boken personal life, broken financial life, broken carer, broken brains (there is another story about health care and pharmacy industry which i can share later )
Life was and is still a learning. but it matters at what point of time you understand the story, for me i understood the story too late when the whole world had stalked me and benefited by it as TRP and keeping me as a scape goat.
What happened ultimately in my life i still try to figure out as what has been happening all this while, when a lot of influences from gulf, my own country city where i stay and from Singapore or other countries have interfered in my life and may be a cause of ruining all the joy or the dreams. May be all Indians have different story and not everyone has the same
None of my original dreams were held by now, broken by narcists people most of them likely living around me and the one whom i knew as i believe only your network takes you down or brings you up.
Who could be held responsible for all this???
#No one can be held responsible for any of this directly, though a lot of things make me sometimes believe that some one or some forces are strategically working against me.
#With specific Technology of private investigation and technical spoofing a lot of proof can be obtained though and necesary people could be bought to justice if i it was a specific targeting case. But this needs a lot of money and eve then when various entities involved then whom to be blamed
--More to follow as it is 2 am now.
Since there were some posts that While there were a few posts going around about Foreigner contribution to Singapore,
i will share my story here. Here is what my story is.. What i have contributed to Singapore or USA or India where i have lived and worked only the All Mighty would know.
A brief about my background
#Was likely among the top 5 percent in my batch for academics for likely most of my seco9ndary school, high school and masters
#Was likely among top 5 percent of the people i knew about my age in terms of personal value systems, behaviour patterns and other ethics, though may have been a great in speech and drama
#A very High IQ which still likely is
#A healthy body and physique due to Aries star sign
#A good decent appealing looks though not a superstar looks
**Came in Singapore in the year 2002 headhunted by a recruiter to work for Microsoft my dream company for a 3-month contract work. Readily accepted it. I held a bachelors, a master's and a MCSD at that time which was a good degree and great qualification.
** I was 24 then, with a lot of hope, dream, passion, enthusiasm, Love for life and everyone around me.
**Ready to spend my youth in Singapore with huge dreams of earning in dollars and returning back after a decade or 2 with huge stash of money to be able to own a landed property
**2005 received a USA H!B and travelled to work , while at the same time i also got applied for residency and got it
**2005 Went to USA and in 3 months bought a used Car, Acura Integra for less than 5K USD and enjoyed it there.
**2005 Found the USA too cold and had some very scary experiences in the USA while i worked there on an H1B,
**when i was sick a specialist appointment was taking me 2 weeks and costing 180- USD , a GP was costing 80 USD plus. i remembered India or Singapore where i could then visit a GP just in a few meters away.
** For those who think USA is very rosy, it is a beautiful country and i loved the weather and my office supervisor was excellent there. But over there i was stalked and a few Indian people whom i knew were rarely mature enough to handle situations properly, based on my skills and knowledge i would honestly grade me -vs them as 7-4.
**2006 my neighbour from India who was a Indian CECA having a firm in USA and inspire did not help me get an H1B, but tricked and sweet talked my family by scaring them and helped me return to India, in return that guy got a US citizenship ;-)) post not sure if it was a coincidence
** had to sell off my dream mini used Integra off as i was returning.
*** 2007 bought another dream care Suzuki Swift which was a good and recognised car in India then
**2007 -2009 returned to Singapore to work and slog on contractual Technology roles in various finance companies
**2010 Felt lonely so sort of started looking online at marriage portals as during work there were no avenues otherwise to meet or date thinking a Singapore experience would add weight to me. Did not get right match due to various selection criteria i had kept for myself then.
** 2010 Family arranged some proposals and got married based on customs, at the same time i was asked to leave work due to a petty salary discussion over chat, o took over another job via reference and lived in Singapore continuing to work on contractual world.
** All this while Still hoping to settle down own a car in Singapore which was a dream for everyone considering cars were o expensive
**2013 Got a beautiful child which i was thankful for
**2013 Bought my first HDB dream house, after many thoughts if we should buy in Nusajaya or in Singapore. A 5I apartment beautiful and just as per expectation for a price more than double for that of Nusajaya Horizon Hills then. This was as i thought i would keep it for my daughter as she would grow up and do her studies there...
Though in my view i think i that decision was a changing point in my life. Had i purchased a Horizon hills house may be things would have been different
*2017-2019 Gave the house back to the bank by making a 100k loss.
2024- living a life half dead with most emotions broken. Boken personal life, broken financial life, broken carer, broken brains (there is another story about health care and pharmacy industry which i can share later )
Life was and is still a learning. but it matters at what point of time you understand the story, for me i understood the story too late when the whole world had stalked me and benefited by it as TRP and keeping me as a scape goat.
What happened ultimately in my life i still try to figure out as what has been happening all this while, when a lot of influences from gulf, my own country city where i stay and from Singapore or other countries have interfered in my life and may be a cause of ruining all the joy or the dreams. May be all Indians have different story and not everyone has the same
None of my original dreams were held by now, broken by narcists people most of them likely living around me and the one whom i knew as i believe only your network takes you down or brings you up.
Who could be held responsible for all this???
#No one can be held responsible for any of this directly, though a lot of things make me sometimes believe that some one or some forces are strategically working against me.
#With specific Technology of private investigation and technical spoofing a lot of proof can be obtained though and necesary people could be bought to justice if i it was a specific targeting case. But this needs a lot of money and eve then when various entities involved then whom to be blamed
--More to follow as it is 2 am now.
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