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Men and women sin in different ways: Study

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Men and women sin in different ways: Study

London (PTI): It seems hell has different ways of punishing male and female sinners, for a study claims that men are most likely to commit lustful misdeeds while women are beholden to conceit.

According to the study, approved by the Vatican City, men are the ones whose souls end up being pelted with fire and brimstone while the women's souls are likely to be broken on a wheel in hell.

Monsignor Wojciech Giertych, personal theologian to Pope Benedict XVI and the papal household, said there was "no sexual equality" when it came to sin. "Men and women sin in different ways," he wrote in Vatican's L'Osservatore Romano.

Pride ranks only at no five for men, who are likely to have indulged in so much lust and gluttony that they are too slothful to feel angry, proud, envious or avaricious. Women, on the other hand, are not averse to lust, but are primarily occupied with pride, envy and anger. Sloth does not set in until after gluttony and avarice.

"When you look at vices from the point of view of the difficulties they create you find that men experiment in a different way from women," Monsignor Giertych was quoted by The Times as saying.

His own observations confirmed the survey, an analysis of confessional data carried out by Roberto Busa, a Jesuit priest celebrated for his computerised study of the works of St Thomas Aquinas. "Diverse cultural contexts generate diverse habits -- but human nature remains the same," he said.
 
I do not know about souls in hell since that is beyond my knowledge or experience.

But I do agree men and women express their wrongdoings in different ways.

As I read this article, my thoughts went to the reported incident of a woman teacher having sex with a minor.

A few points emerge:

(1) There was a claim that she had sex because her husband is too involved in his work.

Herein lies the first difference: the inability of women to accept personal blame for her wrong-doings.

Take another case - that of Ms Elizabeth Wong. Her problems started because of her breakup with her boyfriend. Yet the BN is blamed.

(2) That teacher said she reported the case because she was threatened by the boy she had sex with for 6 times

The earlier newspaper articles said she reported to the police because she was afraid for the safety her family.

Thus the need for women to show the world their virtuous side - that of a loving mother.

BUT later newspaper articles said she feared for her own safety and that is why she reported to the police!

Thus her external virtue camoflagued the inner but real intention - she was only worried about her own skin.

Now these are only two incidents but as you reflect on reported cases, i believe you will find as i did that men and women handle their own sins very differently.

In cases like sexual sins, women don't blame themselves.

In a recent divorce case which shall not be named, there was no reported blame of the husband emerging. Usually in such cases, if the wrongdoing is from the husband, the wife will shout it out from the mountain top.

Why is that the case?

I do not know. But for sure i will read the study carefully.
 
In a recent divorce case which shall not be named, there was no reported blame of the husband emerging. Usually in such cases, if the wrongdoing is from the husband, the wife will shout it out from the mountain top.

Why is that the case?

Let me guess....... the wifey had done the "loco-motion" with the entire Premier League soccer team from London after getting high on drinks while recording for the sports channel that she host ? :D
 
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