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One night in 2015, Dawn (not her real name) goes over to a man’s house. In his bedroom, he shoves his hand up her skirt and fingers her, repeating, “I know you want it.” Repeatedly, she replies, “I don’t want it.”
Nonetheless, he continues. Then, he proceeds to penetrate her with his penis, concurrently removing her clothes. She attempts to push him off and says no, but still he doesn’t stop.
This man is Singaporean Youtuber Eden Ang.
Last Friday, 23 February 2018, Dawn finally lodged an official police report of the sexual assault. The following recount is her statement to the police.
“This happened in 2015. Back then, I didn’t come out because I didn’t have evidence and I just wanted to forget about whatever happened. Furthermore, I’m also in the media industry and I felt like I would be on the losing end.
I got in touch with Eden Ang because of work. We first spoke via a formal email exchange, where his mobile number was given to me. We proceeded to text. Everything was professional, until one day he texted to ask me over for a movie. The situation felt weird, but I thought nothing about it. I turned him down.
A few days later, he asked me the same thing. I said, ‘I don’t want to watch. Cinema waste money.’ He replied, ‘No, watch at home.’ He spoke in a way that made me think he was interested in dating me, so I thought I would give him a chance. The computer was in his room, so we sat on his bed. Nothing happened that night, it was just awkward. After the movie, he tried to persuade me to stay over, but I said no and went home.
The second time we hung out at his house, he made boyfriend-type of advances, even though we were never officially together. He tried to touch me by trying to hug me.
As our arrangement progressed on subsequently, there were times when I continued going to his house supposedly to talk about work. But I remember whenever I went over, there was never any work done. He would always try to touch me instead.
On one occasion, he pulled me over and suddenly reached up to my skirt to touch me. He said he was horny and he believed that girls want it. Of course I resisted and said no. After that, he kind of used force to try to persuade me. When I rejected him, he would show a ‘black’ face and ignore me.
The third time I went to his house, he touched my buttocks and vagina and tried to get me aroused. He grabbed my buttocks first. This was followed with him reaching his hand past my panties to my vagina. I pushed his hand away and tried to stop him, but he ignored me and persisted.
I told him very honestly that I’ve never done this before, even with a guy I date. He told me not to bluff, and that he was sure all girls want it. Deep inside I knew he wanted to have sex. I felt it was wrong, but I also didn’t know whether I was too conservative or sensitive. He told me I needed to open up.
When I didn’t let him do it, he got angry. He said, ‘Girls that are not obedient need to be punished.’ He told me to go to the bathroom and take off my clothes. I asked him what for, because in my head, I knew it was wrong. I just didn’t know how to reject him. So I removed my clothes, leaving only my bra and panties on. He insisted I remove my undergarments, and I eventually gave in.
Eden then took out his mobile phone. He said, ‘I just want to take photo. Because you don’t let me do it, so whenever I just want to feel high, I’ll look at your picture. If you don’t let me do some more, I go look for other girls.’ I kept telling him not to take my pictures, but he got very fierce and I felt lost and confused. All I could do was stand to one side of the door. Now he has my pictures in his phone. After he finished, I got dressed and sat in the bedroom not talking to him. Shortly after, I said I wanted to go home and left.”
“After that day, he would send me pictures of black people’s dicks. He said, ‘I tell you my dick is bigger than these people’s dick, you believe? Are you horny now when I send you all these things?’
He keeps thinking all girls want sex, even when we say we don’t want. He kept forcing me to say his dick is bigger, and in the end I went, ‘Ya, ya, ya’.
He also asked if I owned a G-string. When I said I didn’t, he said he’d take me to buy one so I could wear it for him. He also never wanted me to wear bra and panties when I was out with him.
A few days after he took pictures of me without my consent, he contacted me to explain his actions, telling me that he will make things up to me. He also wanted me to hang out with him at his house soon. Again, I relented.
This was an evening when I went to his house for ‘work’. He brought me to his bedroom again and started fingering me. He pushed me to the bed and said, ‘I know you want it, I know you want it.’ I said, ‘Don’t want la, don’t want la.’ Everything happened so quickly, I was in pain. I told him honestly that I was a virgin. He replied, ‘It’s okay, let me teach you how to do it, let the master teach you. You must try; if you never try, you won’t know how good it is.’
He kept fingering, me even though I tried to stop him. And then he penetrated me with his penis after that. There was sexual intercourse, but no it wasn’t consensual. I pushed him off and kept saying no. But he just kept going, did not stop, and carried on penetrating me. He repeated, ‘You have to go on; if you don’t go on, it’ll be more painful.’ While doing this, he removed my clothes.
Then he said that he was going to ejaculate on my tummy. I wasn’t sure what he was saying, but I remember seeing him remove his condom and ejaculating on my tummy. He then asked me to wash up because it was ‘dirty’, and not to allow the semen to drip. I went to the toilet to wash up and got dressed. After we were done, I left the house.”
“After I got home, he texted to ask how the experience felt. I told him it was quite painful. In fact, it was pain for a few days. He said that pain is normal and I must do it a few times then it won’t be painful.
A few days after we had sex, Eden asked me to go over to his house, which I agreed. Upon arriving, Eden took me over to his bedroom to try and get me horny. He said, ‘After your first time, do you want it again? You want to do it again, I’m sure you want it right? Feels good right?’ He said all this while fingering me. Since I was still feeling the pain, there was no penetration this time. He got angry and we got into an argument over this issue. He said, ‘If you leave the house, don’t come back again.’ I left the house.
After that incident, things became ugly because I started to give in less. I also started opposing him a lot. Then one day with my good friend, who is mutual friends with Eden, I asked her what she thought about him. She told me to stay away and PM-ed me screenshots of other women’s chat history with Eden. The content was the same: asking them to go over for a movie, and so on.
I felt very angry, and asked to meet him. Then I confronted him with those screenshots. He argued that those girls are ‘just friends’, and said I’m sensitive. I told him I wanted to stop everything, and left his house. He ran to the door and grabbed me, and said, ‘You better don’t tell anybody about what happened between us.’ Then he forced me to delete all his messages in front of him. I got angry and did it. I told him to delete my photos on his phone too, but he said, ‘I don’t want to delete. Why should I delete? This is my phone.’
There was a huge argument and I stormed off. We never spoke again. Till today, I don’t know whether he still has my pictures.”
Dawn wasn’t Eden Ang’s only ‘victim’ in 2015. That same year, another girl, Sheryl (not her real name), also claimed to be harassed. As far as we know, she has not made a police report or spoken publicly about her experience. She has, however, shared detailed screenshots of their chat history to support her story.
With Sheryl, Eden claimed to be a photographer seeking a model for an outdoor fashion shoot. When she asked how many women he had photographed prior, he replied, “Just enough until I see pussy I no reaction. Lol numb to it already.”
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Nonetheless, he continues. Then, he proceeds to penetrate her with his penis, concurrently removing her clothes. She attempts to push him off and says no, but still he doesn’t stop.
This man is Singaporean Youtuber Eden Ang.
Last Friday, 23 February 2018, Dawn finally lodged an official police report of the sexual assault. The following recount is her statement to the police.
“This happened in 2015. Back then, I didn’t come out because I didn’t have evidence and I just wanted to forget about whatever happened. Furthermore, I’m also in the media industry and I felt like I would be on the losing end.
I got in touch with Eden Ang because of work. We first spoke via a formal email exchange, where his mobile number was given to me. We proceeded to text. Everything was professional, until one day he texted to ask me over for a movie. The situation felt weird, but I thought nothing about it. I turned him down.
A few days later, he asked me the same thing. I said, ‘I don’t want to watch. Cinema waste money.’ He replied, ‘No, watch at home.’ He spoke in a way that made me think he was interested in dating me, so I thought I would give him a chance. The computer was in his room, so we sat on his bed. Nothing happened that night, it was just awkward. After the movie, he tried to persuade me to stay over, but I said no and went home.
The second time we hung out at his house, he made boyfriend-type of advances, even though we were never officially together. He tried to touch me by trying to hug me.
As our arrangement progressed on subsequently, there were times when I continued going to his house supposedly to talk about work. But I remember whenever I went over, there was never any work done. He would always try to touch me instead.
On one occasion, he pulled me over and suddenly reached up to my skirt to touch me. He said he was horny and he believed that girls want it. Of course I resisted and said no. After that, he kind of used force to try to persuade me. When I rejected him, he would show a ‘black’ face and ignore me.
The third time I went to his house, he touched my buttocks and vagina and tried to get me aroused. He grabbed my buttocks first. This was followed with him reaching his hand past my panties to my vagina. I pushed his hand away and tried to stop him, but he ignored me and persisted.
I told him very honestly that I’ve never done this before, even with a guy I date. He told me not to bluff, and that he was sure all girls want it. Deep inside I knew he wanted to have sex. I felt it was wrong, but I also didn’t know whether I was too conservative or sensitive. He told me I needed to open up.
When I didn’t let him do it, he got angry. He said, ‘Girls that are not obedient need to be punished.’ He told me to go to the bathroom and take off my clothes. I asked him what for, because in my head, I knew it was wrong. I just didn’t know how to reject him. So I removed my clothes, leaving only my bra and panties on. He insisted I remove my undergarments, and I eventually gave in.
Eden then took out his mobile phone. He said, ‘I just want to take photo. Because you don’t let me do it, so whenever I just want to feel high, I’ll look at your picture. If you don’t let me do some more, I go look for other girls.’ I kept telling him not to take my pictures, but he got very fierce and I felt lost and confused. All I could do was stand to one side of the door. Now he has my pictures in his phone. After he finished, I got dressed and sat in the bedroom not talking to him. Shortly after, I said I wanted to go home and left.”
“After that day, he would send me pictures of black people’s dicks. He said, ‘I tell you my dick is bigger than these people’s dick, you believe? Are you horny now when I send you all these things?’
He keeps thinking all girls want sex, even when we say we don’t want. He kept forcing me to say his dick is bigger, and in the end I went, ‘Ya, ya, ya’.
He also asked if I owned a G-string. When I said I didn’t, he said he’d take me to buy one so I could wear it for him. He also never wanted me to wear bra and panties when I was out with him.
A few days after he took pictures of me without my consent, he contacted me to explain his actions, telling me that he will make things up to me. He also wanted me to hang out with him at his house soon. Again, I relented.
This was an evening when I went to his house for ‘work’. He brought me to his bedroom again and started fingering me. He pushed me to the bed and said, ‘I know you want it, I know you want it.’ I said, ‘Don’t want la, don’t want la.’ Everything happened so quickly, I was in pain. I told him honestly that I was a virgin. He replied, ‘It’s okay, let me teach you how to do it, let the master teach you. You must try; if you never try, you won’t know how good it is.’
He kept fingering, me even though I tried to stop him. And then he penetrated me with his penis after that. There was sexual intercourse, but no it wasn’t consensual. I pushed him off and kept saying no. But he just kept going, did not stop, and carried on penetrating me. He repeated, ‘You have to go on; if you don’t go on, it’ll be more painful.’ While doing this, he removed my clothes.
Then he said that he was going to ejaculate on my tummy. I wasn’t sure what he was saying, but I remember seeing him remove his condom and ejaculating on my tummy. He then asked me to wash up because it was ‘dirty’, and not to allow the semen to drip. I went to the toilet to wash up and got dressed. After we were done, I left the house.”
“After I got home, he texted to ask how the experience felt. I told him it was quite painful. In fact, it was pain for a few days. He said that pain is normal and I must do it a few times then it won’t be painful.
A few days after we had sex, Eden asked me to go over to his house, which I agreed. Upon arriving, Eden took me over to his bedroom to try and get me horny. He said, ‘After your first time, do you want it again? You want to do it again, I’m sure you want it right? Feels good right?’ He said all this while fingering me. Since I was still feeling the pain, there was no penetration this time. He got angry and we got into an argument over this issue. He said, ‘If you leave the house, don’t come back again.’ I left the house.
After that incident, things became ugly because I started to give in less. I also started opposing him a lot. Then one day with my good friend, who is mutual friends with Eden, I asked her what she thought about him. She told me to stay away and PM-ed me screenshots of other women’s chat history with Eden. The content was the same: asking them to go over for a movie, and so on.
I felt very angry, and asked to meet him. Then I confronted him with those screenshots. He argued that those girls are ‘just friends’, and said I’m sensitive. I told him I wanted to stop everything, and left his house. He ran to the door and grabbed me, and said, ‘You better don’t tell anybody about what happened between us.’ Then he forced me to delete all his messages in front of him. I got angry and did it. I told him to delete my photos on his phone too, but he said, ‘I don’t want to delete. Why should I delete? This is my phone.’
There was a huge argument and I stormed off. We never spoke again. Till today, I don’t know whether he still has my pictures.”
Dawn wasn’t Eden Ang’s only ‘victim’ in 2015. That same year, another girl, Sheryl (not her real name), also claimed to be harassed. As far as we know, she has not made a police report or spoken publicly about her experience. She has, however, shared detailed screenshots of their chat history to support her story.
With Sheryl, Eden claimed to be a photographer seeking a model for an outdoor fashion shoot. When she asked how many women he had photographed prior, he replied, “Just enough until I see pussy I no reaction. Lol numb to it already.”
http://webcache.googleusercontent.c...ngering-penetrated-sexual-harassment-assault/
