Married for 10 years and still a virgin

[MarrickG]

By Benson Ang

SHE could not have sex with her husband of 10 years because whenever they tried, her body would tense up.

Melissa (not her real name), 35, suffered from an unusual sexual condition called vaginismus, in which the muscles around the vagina involuntarily tighten, making intercourse painful or impossible.

The Ministry of Health does not track the number of vaginismus cases here, but Professor P. Ganesan Adaikan, clinical sexologist from the National University Hospital, and Dr B. Srilatha, a research fellow at National University of Singapore who specialises in obstetrics and gynaecology, told The New Paper that they see 20 to 30 such cases a year.

In an e-mail reply, they said it is related to "either perceived or real pain at attempted vaginal intercourse".

The condition has also been documented by Dr V. Atputharajah, an obstetrician and gynaecologist from Mount Alvernia Hospital, who wrote about it in his book Virgin Wives: Women With Unconsummated Marriages.

 

[saratogas]

Take painkillers n continue their act lah.

 

[Brightkid]

Does foreplay rings a bell ?

 

[cheekenpie]

"I've been married for 25 yrs.... number of time Loong actually pleasure me i can count with one hand.. :("​

 

[halsey02]

Does foreplay rings a bell ?

Yeah!...the golfer, shouts, FORE!..look down..the hole disappear..who to foreplay?

I have bought & read Dr.A bought many years ago....problems like this does exists....

:p

 

[halsey02]

[QUOTE"I've been married for 25 yrs.... number of time Loong actually pleasure me i can count with one hand.. :("[/CENTER][/QUOTE]

Maybe he need another 25 years to ask...what did he do?

 

[kulgai]

"I've been married for 25 yrs.... number of time Loong actually pleasure me i can count with one hand.. :("​

it takes hime 50 yrs to learn 1 trick. give him some more time

 

[STUCK_HERE]

"I've been married for 25 yrs.... number of time Loong actually pleasure me i can count with one hand.. :("​

The 1st time will be on April 31st 2011. He told me already.

 

[Teo Kok Eng]

Melissa (not her real name), 35, suffered from an unusual sexual condition called vaginismus, in which the muscles around the vagina involuntarily tighten, making intercourse painful or impossible.

http://www.ripnroll.com/Lubrication.htm

Try some of the above products. I used it on all my girl friends and mei mei, it makes the thrusting so slippery.

 

[streetsmart73]

"I've been married for 25 yrs.... number of time Loong actually pleasure me i can count with one hand.. :("​

hi there

1. aiyoh! many times, i also covered myself with newspapers and cried underneath it mah!
2. no pleasure but pain one!
3. his daddy did not teach him to do it right leh!
4. or maybe, taught but forgotten how to!

 

[halsey02]

hi there

1. aiyoh! many times, i also covered myself with newspapers and cried underneath it mah!
2. no pleasure but pain one!
3. his daddy did not teach him to do it right leh!
4. or maybe, taught but forgotten how to!

Just like the railway token thing, it took him 50 years to figure out & never ask; he couldn't fathom, why sHE hung up the red lantern.

He always come at the wrong date, cum at the wrong time...

 

[shOUTloud]

I can guarantee the husband is not a virgin.

 

[eatshitndie]

I can guarantee the husband is not a virgin.

you'll be surprised that many sg men have no idea what the real vagina hole is and don't know how to fuck. there are couples who think the arsehole is the entrance to the joy tube, and they have been fucking thru' the wrong hole for years and wondering why wifey does not get pregnant.