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Li Nanxing is now a Christian after 7 years of shit

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http://sg.christianpost.com/dbase.php?cat=culture&id=1315

Faith Delivered Actor from 'Seven Years of Nightmare'

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A prominent television star recently told of how God had saved him from a life of endless nightmares.

Interviewed as part of a church service, Li Nanxing opened up on the miseries he faced beginning 15 years back.

It began with an inappropriate remark the MediaCorp actor made during an acceptance speech. The gaffe threatened Li’s career.

Feeling insecure, he hastily entered a business partnership. Li devoted his life savings, amounting to $900,000, to start a resort country club. Not long after he left the business and funds to his partner and went to China for filming. The actor returned after six months to find that he had been cheated of his money.

Moreover Li found he owed the supplier and contractor half a million. Hoping to save the business, he sold his valuables, downgraded his car and borrowed from banks, friends and loan sharks.

For awhile he was able to get more loans to pay off the interest of previous loans. But then his creditors started filing complaints and the public came to know that he was debt-ridden.

Mired in financial troubles, the ‘Unbeatables’ star took to actual gambling. On most nights after his regular work, the actor would travel to Genting to try his luck and then rush back for another day of work.

In his attempt to repay his loans, Li would often drink with his customers at his karaoke lounge to increase profit. As a result of his bingeing, the actor became an alcoholic and developed liver spots on his body and arms. Li also became an excessive smoker.

The actor revealed that it came to a point where he lived from hand to mouth. Due to his inability to pay his bills, his electricity was occasionally cut off.

Finally the court sheriff seized his house because he failed to pay the housing loan. He took out more loans to lift the court order.

A friend approached him for help, asking him to be a guarantor for half a million dollars. Li agreed, but then that friend disappeared.

At his lowest point, Li thought of committing suicide, he confessed before his pastor, colleagues and fellow church members.

The actor also experienced demonic attacks. He would see a large, frightening eye threatening to devour him whenever he turned off the lights. He was also sometimes overwhelmed by a violent streak and hurt others unwittingly.

Li’s life took a positive turn when an old friend, a Christian, contacted him after learning of his dire straits. The friend shared the Gospel with the actor, but the latter was initially unreceptive.

Then Li had a miraculous experience while at a nightclub in Thailand.

Upon receiving a call from his Christian friend, the actor left the karaoke room to look for a private place. He saw an exit sign hanging above a door and rushed into it, only to take a three-storey plunge.

Li learned later that the door led to a spiral staircase, but the staff removed a portion of it. This was to more easily discard their trash to the dump below.

The actor would have fallen into a large pile of open cans and broken bottles if an invisible, gentle hand had not grabbed him, he said. In the darkness, the hand took hold of him, turned him around and he grabbed hold of something screaming for help. :rolleyes: A waitress heard him and helped him up.

When he returned to the hotel, he received a call from his Christian friend. The latter told him the church had been praying for him and that God was with him. The friend subsequently invited him to a miracle service for his injured leg. Li eventually became a Christian in 2003. Then his circumstances started to change.

Li’s business partner called him and asked for an out-of-court settlement. In return he would repay him $210,000. The actor agreed and used to money to repay the bank and the interest for his housing loan.

A few months later, the creditors of the loan he secured for his friend told him they would go after their debtors instead. And then Li also signed on with an entertainment company that gave him more opportunities. In one year, he was able to repay the loan shark.

The actor also quit his gambling, drinking and smoking habits and stopped having spiritual attacks.

It seems like the morale of the story is that if you super suay, maybe becoming a Christian might help! :rolleyes:
 
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red amoeba

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but despite having embraced god and jesus christ, he still divorced from Yang Libing...why? Whats the reason? His debts? Or he womanise?
 

streetsmart73

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but despite having embraced god and jesus christ, he still divorced from Yang Libing...why? Whats the reason? His debts? Or he womanise?


hi there


1. bro, it could also be the other way around leh!
2. just like pinoys in pinoyland.
3. six days of sins, sabbath is the day of repent mah!
4. party, party, party.
 

mollusk

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didn't know he was so stupid..already debt ridden and still became a guarantor...
 

red amoeba

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I saw Yang Libing in real life. She has a very good body... this Li Nanxing really never appreciate. :biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:

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man, i tell you, can sometimes be very funny.

princess diana also damm chio - but her husband still think Camela is the best...what to do?
 

cooleo

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ST 9 Mar 2005

Love on the rocks

Life! traces how the marriage between glamour acting couple Li Nanxing and Yang Libing fell apart
By Mak Mun San and Foong Woei Wan

IN THE end, the fairytale marriage was just not meant to be.

'We've been living apart and in separate rooms for the past three years' -- Li Nanxing (above right) on his relationship with wife Yang Libing in a statement released by his management company, LNX Global. -- PHOTOS: LIANHE ZAOBAO AND SHIN MIN

Last Friday, MediaCorp actor Li Nanxing confirmed that he and his actress wife of 10 years, Yang Libing, have split.

In a statement released by his management company, LNX Global, he said: 'We have been living apart and in separate rooms for the past three years.'

Emphasising that there was 'no third party involved', he appealed to the media to 'respect our privacy in this matter'.

This followed days of front page headlines in Chinese dailies and frenzied speculation that the couple's marriage was on the rocks.

News first broke last Wednesday that Li, 40, and Yang, 39, have been separated since November last year and have filed for divorce.

A businesswoman had allegedly come between them and Yang was said to be the one who asked for a divorce.

Initially, Li denied the break-up and dismissed the rumours as 'rubbish'. Yang, on the other hand, neither confirmed nor denied the reports.

Things took a dramatic turn on Monday when Li's mother got involved in the saga, revealing astonishing details of her son's failed marriage.

Yang's elder sister and former actress, Lina, also stepped forward and denied the older woman's claims on her sister's behalf.

So, what exactly happened that led to the split of one of Singapore's most famous glamour couples?

Both Li and Yang could not be reached for comment yesterday.

Li's manager, Ms Teri Tan, did not answer repeated calls to her mobile phone.

Yang was not around when Life! visited De Elements, the hair salon in Toa Payoh she runs with Lina.

Life! pieces together what is turning out to be one of the biggest local showbiz stories of the year.

Send your comments to [email protected]

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Yang Libing: I'm a tough cookie

SHE is said to be a fiery chilli padi who bosses her henpecked husband around.

But Yang Libing said she is actually protecting Li Nanxing by playing the bad guy.

He is too 'soft and gullible', she explained, crediting him for training her 'to become the tough cookie I am today'.

The couple met in 1986 when they were drama trainees at the then Singapore Broadcasting Corporation. She is described as a 'chilli padi' and he as 'lazy'.
In response to her mother-in-law's allegations that she bullies Li, Yang said: 'This is because she loves her son. Who doesn't have parents?'

Li's mother claimed that the actor once had to sleep at a bus stop in the middle of the night - implying that Yang shut her husband out of the house.

But according to a friend close to the couple, Yang had left Li at his mother's place that night because he was too tired.

When she later learnt that Li had disappeared, she drove around looking for him, together with Li's mother.

His mother has also alleged that Yang would kick up such a storm every time Li wanted to visit her that her son would go home only once a year.

In response, Yang's elder sister Lina said that her sister had in fact asked Li to visit his mother. However, she claimed that there was nothing Yang could do if Li was 'born lazy'.

Yang herself has declined so far to comment on whether it was she who asked for a divorce, or on rumours that a married businesswoman is the third party.

The couple on their wedding day in 1994, with fellow stars (from left) Ivy Lee, Cynthia Koh, Cherie Lim and Christie Wong.
As to what really happened, she said that 'they should know better', without specifying whom she meant by 'they'.

'When there is a definite answer to this matter, I'll explain everything. I won't run away.'

Ever since news of the divorce broke, Yang has maintained a calm and collected composure in front of the media.

In fact, she has only good words for Li, whom she met in 1986 when the two of them were drama trainees at the then Singapore Broadcasting Corporation.

'It doesn't matter if I still love him or not. As a friend or as a lover, I have never wanted anything bad to happen to him.'

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Li Nanxing 'slept at a bus stop'

IN THE history of marital relations, many a husband has been tossed out of the bedroom and banished to the couch by his wife - former American president Bill Clinton included.

But Li Nanxing, the king of Caldecott Hill, got it worse. He once had to spend the night at a bus stop after a spat with his actress wife Yang Libing.

Or so his mother claims.

She lamented to the press that after Li married Yang in 1994, he would only visit her once a year, for the Chinese New Year reunion dinner. 'Whenever he wanted to come back, somebody would quarrel with him and the bickering would become extremely severe. To patch things up, my son had to give in,' she said.

Li, the third of four children of a vegetable farmer and a seamstress, grew up in Lim Chu Kang.

Once, he had to leave his mother's home in a hurry because he and Yang had an especially heated argument over his visit. That night, his mother said, she was worried that 'something would happen' and went to his home at about 3am.

She said she saw him sleeping on a seat at a bus stop in his neighbourhood.

'I cried for two days after that. Why was my son this miserable? He's a big star, reduced to sleeping at a bus stop.'


In 1994, Li bought a marital home, a terrace house in Sin Ming Road, for $1.4 million, although his monthly pay then was just $7,000.

She said he told her then that he would reserve a room there for her.

But since then, she said she had set foot in his house only twice.

She said that after she saw how her son was 'bullied' by Yang, her relationship with her daughter-in-law deteriorated.

Of the divorce, she said: 'It's time that my son's pain ended. When two people quarrel all the time, it's better to part sooner, so each can give the other space to live his life well.'

Li himself has spoken to the press about his days as Yang's long-suffering husband.

'From the first time we met to the time we were married, I really had a hard time. I was always enduring actually, hoping to keep it going, but really there was no way and it had to end.'

He blamed their break-up on their incompatible personalities. She was ambitious, and he was too low-key, he said.

It did not help that their work kept them apart.

In 1987, Li shot to stardom with his first show On The Fringe. He was voted among the 10 most popular male artistes at the Star Awards more than 10 times during an 18-year career.

At the height of his success, he married Yang.

In the late 1990s, he invested in a bar and a disco but both businesses failed. In 1997, he was caught drink-driving.

Last year, he went into a venture with the management company LNX Global - LNX are the initials of his name - in which he has shares.

He is now considering working in Shanghai and Beijing in future.

As to talk that a third party, a married businesswoman, had come between them, his answer was crisp: 'I wouldn't dare.'

What about a woman who had been seen driving him home by his neighbours? 'She's a driver employed by the management company,' was his reply.

Some of his neighbours also told the press that on several occasions, they saw him going home in a drunken stupor and heard him shouting outside his house.

The actor explained that it was because he was running bars then and had to entertain guests.

However, his mother had a different spin to the story. She said: 'He took to drink to drown his sorrows because he was troubled and extremely unhappy.'

And now that he has filed for divorce and moved back to his mother's home, he is a changed man, she said. 'He doesn't even drink a drop now.'
 

red amoeba

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har...so Li has soft-ears, gullible - which is why not once,not twice, but thrice lend money/ act as guarantor and end up in debts. So, Li is right to wear the pants bcos the husband is weak?
 

cathylmg

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Also the mother so happy to see the son divorced? Never even tried to mediate between the 2? I get the sense that the mother is also one of the culprit that put the drift between the 2. After all, who would be so happy to see the son going through a divorce? Li is proberly the mother's boy who grown up to have the soft personality that lets women walked all over him. Its the mother's fault that the boy grew up like that.
 

cooleo

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har...so Li has soft-ears, gullible - which is why not once,not twice, but thrice lend money/ act as guarantor and end up in debts. So, Li is right to wear the pants bcos the husband is weak?

Isn't that the same as Fandi Ahmad? Their wives appear to be dominant and controlling. If they are really so good, why their hubbies' businesses all flopped?
 

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KNN... blame the demons and bad spirits for stupid investment decisions, lousy wealth management, violent tantrums, assholes for friends...
 

cathylmg

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Isn't that the same as Fandi Ahmad? Their wives appear to be dominant and controlling. If they are really so good, why their hubbies' businesses all flopped?

Its because they are the soft kind who are not suited to do business. Their mothers are dominent. They grew up to take instruction. Not the other way around. Just look at Chow Yun Fatt. The other 2 women all can't get along with their mother. Only the last one who takes charge or everything stays the longest. They need their women to dominate them.
 
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