Kopitime: I struggle to find love because I don't earn much

[riceberry]

Is it that hard to find love in Singapore? FILE PHOTO: THE STRAITS TIMES

Yesterday 04:33pm

Kopitime: I struggle to find love because I don't earn much​

For over a decade, I've been on a quest to find love, investing my time, effort and approximately $10,000 on various matchmaking agencies.

Yet, despite my persistence, I remain single, still searching for the right person to share my life with.

Since 2013, I've attended numerous speed dating events and matchmaking services from well-known local agencies, including CompleteMe, Love Express, Fabrique Love, Gai Gai, and Dating Moments.

I've also tried personalised one-on-one matchmaking through the premium service Lunch Actually.

One of the main challenges I face is seeing the same familiar faces at different events.

While I'm open to dating older women, many are uncomfortable with the idea of dating a younger man. Once they find out they are older than me, they tend to lose interest.

Another hurdle is my financial situation.

I'm a low-income earner and many women, who earn more than me, MIA on me once they learn about my income.

I also struggle with appearing approachable. I don't have the habit of smiling often, which might make me seem unfriendly or distant to potential partners. But the truth is, I'm not picky when it comes to love.

I don't seek perfection. I just hope to meet someone who is decent-looking and accepting of my financial limitations.

Going Dutch on dates is a practical necessity for me, and I hope to find someone who understands and is comfortable with that.

Nationality isn't a concern.

I'm open to dating Singaporeans and foreigners alike. I'm also open to relationships with divorcees or widows, as I believe everyone deserves a chance at love, regardless of their past.

After years of searching, I'm now reaching out in a different way - by sharing my story.

Perhaps there's someone out there who can relate to my journey or is willing to give me a chance.

Eugene

 

[myfoot123]

No money no love, PAPPY knows it very well. You cut their pay, they said not interested in politics anymore. Same for woman looking for a husband.

 

[NanoSpeed]

To be perfect, you must not have a woman.

Buddha did so; so did Jesus.

 

[batman1]

No money no love, PAPPY knows it very well. You cut their pay, they said not interested in politics anymore. Same for woman looking for a husband.

Cutting pap ministers pay is a No No as they may cry they cannot survive. 555

 

[True Believer]

In a materialistic society like S'pore, it is understandable that no money = no honey. Men need to own a condo and car in order to get a GF.

 

[NanoSpeed]

In a materialistic society like S'pore, it is understandable that no money = no honey. Men need to own a condo and car in order to get a GF.

This is why handsome like @sbfuncle still single:

 

[VanDick]

What a dumbass flaccid sinkie. Who tell him to reveal his income? He should keep it a secret to maintain a mysterious aura.

But on the flip side, if the women run away after knowing your income, then they are definitely not worth it and you'll be thankful that you've dodged a bullet.

 

[Pinkieslut]

JLb please fuck off don’t talk about love. aMDks and niggers no money but also can also get lots of love and fucks.

 

[syed putra]

Match making agencies. This guy is hopeless.
Even if you are low income, but show class, girls will be impressed.

 

[WangChuk]

if only nowadays still have matchmaking service .... sigh!

 

[A Singaporean]

Small dick and no money please fuck off. Go home and use your 2 fingers.

 

[syed putra]

Take it from the expert

 

[shock888]

Is it that hard to find love in Singapore? FILE PHOTO: THE STRAITS TIMES

Yesterday 04:33pm

Kopitime: I struggle to find love because I don't earn much​

For over a decade, I've been on a quest to find love, investing my time, effort and approximately $10,000 on various matchmaking agencies.

Yet, despite my persistence, I remain single, still searching for the right person to share my life with.

Since 2013, I've attended numerous speed dating events and matchmaking services from well-known local agencies, including CompleteMe, Love Express, Fabrique Love, Gai Gai, and Dating Moments.

I've also tried personalised one-on-one matchmaking through the premium service Lunch Actually.

One of the main challenges I face is seeing the same familiar faces at different events.

While I'm open to dating older women, many are uncomfortable with the idea of dating a younger man. Once they find out they are older than me, they tend to lose interest.

Another hurdle is my financial situation.

I'm a low-income earner and many women, who earn more than me, MIA on me once they learn about my income.

I also struggle with appearing approachable. I don't have the habit of smiling often, which might make me seem unfriendly or distant to potential partners. But the truth is, I'm not picky when it comes to love.

I don't seek perfection. I just hope to meet someone who is decent-looking and accepting of my financial limitations.

Going Dutch on dates is a practical necessity for me, and I hope to find someone who understands and is comfortable with that.

Nationality isn't a concern.

I'm open to dating Singaporeans and foreigners alike. I'm also open to relationships with divorcees or widows, as I believe everyone deserves a chance at love, regardless of their past.

After years of searching, I'm now reaching out in a different way - by sharing my story.

Perhaps there's someone out there who can relate to my journey or is willing to give me a chance.

Eugene

As a man, you are expected to work hard and rise to the challenges and grow rich. No one is going to pity a man who just complain.

 

[Robert Half]

Please dun have too high expectations of a man …

I knew many low income salarymen who live well .. they are either married or single

 

[sbfuncle]

This is why handsome like @sbfuncle still single:

KNN KNN KNN karchng bin now.
Seriously I look like him now too but not so old

 

[bobby]

If you have to use a match making agency…you are really fucked socially

 

[NanoSpeed]

KNN KNN KNN karchng bin now.
Seriously I look like him now too but not so old

Then you are more handsome than John Lone NOW.

 

[sbfuncle]

Then you are more handsome than John Lone NOW.

Cannot compare now as John lone is much older than me now
All I can say is both also karchng bin now and similar kind of kb KNN

 

[eatshitndie]

What a dumbass flaccid sinkie. Who tell him to reveal his income? He should keep it a secret to maintain a mysterious aura.

But on the flip side, if the women run away after knowing your income, then they are definitely not worth it and you'll be thankful that you've dodged a bullet.

yahor. instead of incum, may be can show his outcum (in copious amount), to let his date have creampie for dessert.

 

[mojito]

Wat a dumb sinkie! Stop being poor! Problem solved.