Josie thought her relationship with Allen was going somewhere until he ghosted her after five months and married his long-time girlfriend.
I was happily single when I met Allen at a bookstore in town. I was browsing through the health section when a handsome, well-dressed guy approached me and asked me about the book I was checking out. Over the next 10 minutes we shared a wonderful conversation about everything, from our jobs to where we went to school. We seemed to get along well and I noticed some chemistry between us, and before we parted ways, Allen told me he wanted to see me again and asked for my phone number.
My first date with Allen was one of the best dates of my life. He took me out to dinner at an expensive restaurant in Sentosa, and later we drove back into town and walked through the Botanic Gardens at night. It was romantic and special – we took things slow and held hands and kissed.
Over the next few months, Allen and I saw each other once or twice a week. We both worked long hours and sometimes even on weekends, so we could only meet late at night or early on weekend mornings. Our dates were fun and always involved a meal and walks along the beach or through the park.
During our time together, Allen and I were physically affectionate but we didn’t have sexual intercourse. While many men in their 30s tend to want to rush into sex with the women they’re dating, Allen was respectful of my decision to not go all the way, and I appreciated that. Besides the fact that we were taking things slow, I also loved that Allen and I had plenty in common, from our love of good food and travel to our personal values and beliefs about life.
Allen and I hadn’t discussed dating each other exclusively. We didn’t even talk about our previous relationships or entertain the prospect of us having a future together. I didn’t think that was unusual, because it had only been a few months, we hadn’t met each other’s friends or relatives, and we weren’t in love yet. I was quite happy to go with the flow and see where the relationship took us. I didn’t consider Allen my boyfriend but he did often tell me that he was slowly falling for me and wanted to see where we’d end up. I was over the moon when I heard that.
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I was happily single when I met Allen at a bookstore in town. I was browsing through the health section when a handsome, well-dressed guy approached me and asked me about the book I was checking out. Over the next 10 minutes we shared a wonderful conversation about everything, from our jobs to where we went to school. We seemed to get along well and I noticed some chemistry between us, and before we parted ways, Allen told me he wanted to see me again and asked for my phone number.
My first date with Allen was one of the best dates of my life. He took me out to dinner at an expensive restaurant in Sentosa, and later we drove back into town and walked through the Botanic Gardens at night. It was romantic and special – we took things slow and held hands and kissed.
Over the next few months, Allen and I saw each other once or twice a week. We both worked long hours and sometimes even on weekends, so we could only meet late at night or early on weekend mornings. Our dates were fun and always involved a meal and walks along the beach or through the park.
During our time together, Allen and I were physically affectionate but we didn’t have sexual intercourse. While many men in their 30s tend to want to rush into sex with the women they’re dating, Allen was respectful of my decision to not go all the way, and I appreciated that. Besides the fact that we were taking things slow, I also loved that Allen and I had plenty in common, from our love of good food and travel to our personal values and beliefs about life.
Allen and I hadn’t discussed dating each other exclusively. We didn’t even talk about our previous relationships or entertain the prospect of us having a future together. I didn’t think that was unusual, because it had only been a few months, we hadn’t met each other’s friends or relatives, and we weren’t in love yet. I was quite happy to go with the flow and see where the relationship took us. I didn’t consider Allen my boyfriend but he did often tell me that he was slowly falling for me and wanted to see where we’d end up. I was over the moon when I heard that.
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